As a child, I used to masturbate with other females. I did read up on it once, that it was a normal thing for a group of young girls aged 8-10 to masturbate with each other, pretend to have sex, and touch each other, experimenting. Anyway, a few of my friends would engage in such acts and I don't have a problem with it at all, I know it's normal and healthy. However, when we were younger I feel I may have violated my little sister by getting her involved in it, when I think she wasn't interested. But she would go along, and sometimes try to say no, but sometimes would participate without complaint. I don't know if it were because she was scared because she was younger. Either way I feel terrible about it. I was very young and didn't mean any harm, I was just curious. Should I be worried about my sister's sexual health, as she might think she was abused or participated in incest? Your oppinions would be greatly appericated.
Hard to say if she was negatively impacted. I suppose you have to analize her conduct towards her female friends, hey boyfriends and you. I mean, is she a social person or a loner. Does she prefer to hang out with girls or boys or both. Does she like to look preaty with cool clothing and makeup and whatnot or she doesn't give a damn. Are you both close sisters or totally different lives and friend circles. I think only after analizing all of this is the aprouch you should take to talk to her about this. Hope everything works out for you.
We are close, and we talked about it. She knows that I thought it was normal. That it was okay for me to act in such ways. I've done more research and they say it's a yellow flag if a child masturbates with others, or with a sibling. She says she's dealt with it, and forgives me, because she seriously knows I didn't know any better. I don't have any sexual deviant behaviour, neither does she. She's had sex with a few men, and she's confident in her sexual life. She's not been sexually active with other girls, just with men. We've had similar groups of friends as teenagers, and we're okay now. Still close and she thinks that dealing with what she did, she's a better person.
