How to Masturbate If....

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Jinny, Feb 10, 2008.

  1. Jinny

    Jinny Member

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    I recently met a guy online. He's cool, smart, funny, intelligent, but suddenly out of the blue - we weren't even discussing it - he said he needs to let me know something.

    He is chronically disabled, to the point of needing full time care. He has barely any hand movements, and so uses a voice chat thing to type. He never made that a secret of that from the beginning, as he said it even affects friendships, but what he said was, that he was unable to masturbate. I asked if he could use any toys, he said not really as he would need someone to apply them if they were small, and remove them, and the cleanup....and basically the whole thing would be humiliating. He said he is so frustrated sometimes he simply ends up crying.

    That got me thinking. There has to be other disabled guys out there in the same situation. I know the busiest prostitutes are those 'specialising' in old men (particularly in nursing homes) and in disabled people, but what if you don't want to use a prostitute ?

    So...guys.....This is a serious question - I'm asking you for your thoughts. If you can't use your hands much, how can you achieve satisfaction, and some form of dignity (as he put it) alone?

    Thanks in advance.
     
  2. Hip Aficionado

    Hip Aficionado Member

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    that's sad that he can't wank. you should help him out. it'd make his day.
     
  3. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    Wow, I don't know. I had never thought about that actually. That is sad though....
     
  4. madcap

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    woah that must be torture for him, i feel really sorry for him, i guess theres no way he can do it though, he must have tried everything possible already, i guess a prostitute is the only way, and not all prostitutes are dirty, i bet some of them are really professional who do it for disabled people, just providing the service, lol
     

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