When people fall for other people, they say they see something in them that they have not found, or seen in anyone else, what is it that you've found rare or hard to find in anyone but just that one? Or maybe that you haven't found yet??
Referring to falling in love? For me the answer is just Love, the feeling of having time and space disappear, no memories and no future, just the bliss of being alive right now, right next to this person, sharing the wonders of life together. namaste
Honestly, what I love about my wife is just that, that together we provide each other the state of mind that causes any sense of fear, opinion, thought, etc. to drop away and just be able to sit silently and watch life go by. This kind of connection I've never had with anyone else before. I think if it were a matter of what "I really thought" about them, then in fact that would not be my love of my wife, that would be the love of the image I have gathered about who my wife is to me, rather than who she actually is in every passing moment. Sorry, I realize you didnt actually ask for all of that, but it's just how I feel! namaste
When I can be 100% myself around someone and be completely comfortable and just feel like I belong. completely. Even more so than if i'm by myself. It's not really something I can explain, it's just a feeling.
I would have said that the feeling is just something you can't put into words, but telephone said it quite well, actually. But yeah, it really can't be defined, because it is different for everyone, we don't all process our emotions the same way. I know it sounds cliched, but it is true what they say: When you find that special someone, you just KNOW.
I cannot put that sort of thing into words.. it's only happened like once to me, it's too strong.. and weird.. and.. I don't know.
It's been too long for me. I don't know. Just having someone display a semblance of interest toward me would be nice...lol.
