love and lust Can we have both?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Annabela, Feb 11, 2008.

  1. Annabela

    Annabela Member

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    in ur experience....is it possible to be in love and love and also have great sexual chimistry?

    if yes...how many of ur relationships were like that?

    i read somehwere: those who we love we dont desire and those who we desire we dotn love...what do u think?
     
  2. hippie_chick666

    hippie_chick666 Senior Member

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    I've got both w/ my fiance. Of course, it's not the same as when we first met, but the desire is still there. We live about 2 1/2 hours away and he surprised me Sat. by coming here for Valentines Day. Yep, the sexual attraction is very much alive!

    Peace and love
     
  3. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Yes.


    One, my current relationship.


    B.S. I love my fiancee and I desire her.
     
  4. Green_Goddess

    Green_Goddess Member

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    I completely believe love and lust can go together... I love my boyfriend to death and I most definitely lust after him.. and we have unbelievably great sexual chemistry
     
  5. Magical Fire Lady

    Magical Fire Lady Senior Member

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    I think its really important to be attracted and to desire someone you're in a relationship with.. romantic love and lust should go together is what I'm saying
     
  6. iriegnome

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    I think it is possible. I know also that it does not work out if one (myself) is in love and desires your partner (my ex-wife). My current g/f and I have a great sexual attraction to each other and I am becoming more and more in love with her. I think that for anything in a relationship - it take two.
     
  7. Annabela

    Annabela Member

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    thank u all for ur replies:)
    now i am sure that i need not to compromise...on either love or lust:)
    good luck to u all to sexy and loving relationships:)
     
  8. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    It might be important not to frame deep-rooted questions so that you get the answer you want as comfirmation.


    Not rushing to answer these questions can be of great help.
     

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