free love poll

Everyone has its own opinion about "Free Love". For me "Free Love" means getting laid with everyone that wears a skirt. LOL.

 

I just want some head on the side.
that would be nice.
a dedicated oral servant.

 

I'm a free lover myself and it's caused quite a bit of confusion with those whom I've been with. In a lot of ways I've been a serial monogamer because of that aspect. I've always loved people. Often I love them instantly and forever. That's how I came to this awareness.

I still love every person I've ever loved. People go their separate ways it's part of life's ebb and flow. And as I was realizing this I realized that as I loved each person I still loved them totally while having love for all the others. Love isn't deleterious it's an additive thing for me. Nearly everybody I've met has tried to convince me that love is about devotion and committment, meaning monogamy and long term but I disagree. For if you begin to grow at a different rate than your lover and neither of you allows the other the space and freedom to pursue that different rate of growth then you are actually impeding that person, causing them harm out of... love? I'm sorry but that's not love to me. Love is regardless of the actions of another. Love that turns to hate or manifests itself as jealousy isn't really love in my experience. It's a form of ownership. I witness it pretty much everywhere. Parents with their children. Spouses... famlies, religions, countries... a lot of people seem to think they own a lot of things. But one thing I've never seen anybody own is love.

For me it's also difficult to separate love and sex. I don't think they're separate at all. At least for me they're not. Who cares if it's for a night or a lifetime. It's a vibration like being horny in your heart. That warmth that spreads and envelopes. I guess you could fuck like you're taking a piss but why when you can have so much more... usually even with the same people. And if you want to envite all your closest and newest friends to share the love and fuck each other retarded... why not?

 

and this is one of the reasons why i love you thank you for expanding my views on love and sex, and helping as well as allowing me to grow.

 

yeah that's my sugar mama. I love you too.

 

jrnyman very well said

but i wanna make a comment to the oral servant up there..that aint free love thats being human or well animal would fit as well..being alive..sex feels good ..ya wanna have sex..duh..wether you restrict that to 1 person or give out blowjobs in public restrooms that isnt free love
free love is unrestricted love (wether or not you have weekly orgie parties)
restrictive love cannot expand and grow to its potential, i'm not saying that monogomouse love cant be wonderful (or that free love cant be monogomouse either) but what i mean is that often love becomes restricted bny the expectations * limmitations of those you find yourself in relationships with (or yourself) but loving freely, loving all u come in contact with evben, love becomes expansive,m growing exponentialy till it feels as though it fills the universe..
ofcourse when your loving everyone like that theres a greatter chance that 2-3-5-8 people are lovin eachother like crazy together wether for a day a week a year or lifetime because as stated before, sex is enjoyable and we as living beings like having sex
and, sex is more enjoyable with someone u love and feel love from, then someone you despise
so ofcourse theres a greatter chance that unconventional relationships (or the lack of need for any form of defined relationship) will occur
so i guess to answer my own question, free loves about loving freely, withoutr limmits, and promiscuity (or better to just say sex with seemingly random ppl) is more of a by-product of that overflowing love

 

haha that's so true... when you send it out it just comes back to you. thanks for starting this thread brother. I dig it.

 

Emma Goldman was also for "free love" what meant for her the sexual and spiritual union of two people who are not married. She believed that the marriage means for women being life-long dependent and sexual objects. Many people saw her as the "New women" - emancipated, unmarried and independent. She opposed every institution of force and exploitation: private property, slavery, religion, marriage, the military and the state.

 

I like this Emma Goldman.