Men only!!!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Annabela, Feb 11, 2008.

  1. Annabela

    Annabela Member

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    Can a man who is in love or love his partner cheat?
    please share ur experiences:)
     
  2. fricknfrack

    fricknfrack Member

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    of course they can
     
  3. Zeppelin

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    Yeah. A one-night stand with another women doesn't mean he doesn't still love you.
     
  4. Austinn

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    of course, doesnt say much about his character though... scumbag imo unless wife was cool with it
     
  5. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Define love.
     
  6. I_like_apples

    I_like_apples Member

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    Love may be, respect - never!
     
  7. Chris_mate

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    Men and woman cheat at any stage of the relationship... I think its disgusting.. I have just been cheated on !!
     
  8. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    Yep, men and women both can...
     
  9. iriegnome

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    My ex-wife cheated on me. She claimed she still loved me. Fuck that. Fuck her. Fuck cheaters. Love, to me, means a committment. That means NO FUCKING OTHER PEOPLE!! How difficult is this to understand.

    Don't get me wrong people have their own opinions and their own issues to deal with. This is just my opinion.
     
  10. WhisperingWoods

    WhisperingWoods too far gone

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    What about if one partner is celibate and sex is important to the other?
     
  11. sehraf

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    "can" one cheat in a relationship? Of course one can, male or female, it is a choice made long before the act takes place. The thoughts of the mind can be brought captive. That is where it begins. True Love empowers one to do that. Cheating is unacceptable in a relationship, it is poison.
     
  12. riddler123

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    Ya, if he is drunk he could easily. but then again it varies from man to man. i know people who would do it when there drunk... and i also know people who have everything they want in there relationship and would not cheat. i would not cheat personally.
     
  13. phosphorescence

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    i totally agree - not only does marriage mean "this is the only person you should be having sex with for the rest of your life", but LOVING someone should automatically make you stick with that person, and only that person. if you truly LOVE someone, you never want to hurt them, and it's obvious that cheating would do just that. the only reason you would cheat on someone you "love" is if you don't love them... it's just that simple :/

    too many people, young and old, place the beautiful name of love on any old feeling, and that's where it all starts. it's just toooo bad.
     
  14. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    The word "can" implies that a man has a choice. I can choose whether or not to cheat on my partner. But just because I can choose to doesn't mean that I will.

    Perhaps the question you ought to be asking is: why would a man in love with his partner choose to cheat? Or to be clearer about it: Given that man has free will and therefore can choose to either cheat or not, why would he choose to cheat on his partner (assuming that a. they do love each other and b. they both agree to have a monogamous relationship)?
     
  15. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Obviously, human beings are capable of competing motivations. And thou shalls and shall nots and punitive measures work only to a certain extent.


    I'd think I'd rather inquire into those motivations than yell normative stuff till I'm blue in the face.
     
  16. byron

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    if he truly loves you he will resist the temptation to cheat. if he cheats once he will continue to do this. ive never cheated on my partners and it leads to a much better sex life
     
  17. Asswoman

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    You said it iriegnome. I have been cheated on as well. He still tell me he loves me and were getting married, etc. I just want to tell him how can you love me if you did want you did. How screwed up is that. We were togather for 11 yrs. engaged for 3 yrs.Building a house togather. Cheated with a 36 yr old homewrecker with 3 kids. I'm 27 with NO kids. I don't understand people cheating on there parnters.
     
  18. StayLoose1011

    StayLoose1011 Senior Member

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    Why would you want to cheat if you were in love and felt completed by your partner? If I love someone, that means that they "complete me" to resort to a cliche, and I can't imagine ever wanting to cheat on someone that I really love.
     

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