*sigh* advice anyone?

I say make Magic brownies and give him one. He'll be hooked

 

Oh and definitely dont try to pressure him into doing it that's probably what hes afraid of.

 

Be honest with him and tell him you've still been smoking it. Tell him what you said, that it's a part of you. Tell him that you have not become any less of a person because of it, so why is it such a bad thing? Ask him why he's so against it and try to give him a different perspective on it without pressuring him.


My boyfriend hates that I smoke too, but he tolerates it. I want him to smoke with me at least once, just so he can see it's not as bad as he thinks.

 

Tell him that you want to smoke pot again, and if he says some shit about it tell him to fuck himself and to suck your dick.

 

If you want to smoke pot, smoke pot. If he doesn't smoke better to not smoke when you are with him. but like a few people have said, if he really loves you, he'll accept that part of you, and if he doesn't accept it, you probably won't be able to be happy together - at least not and be yourselves.

 

the whole, " I have backpain and nothing else helps me" sounds like you're just making an excuse to try to justify smokin weed. Not saying anything is wrong with smoking it, but I'm just saying don't kid yourself.

 

wether or not he did not tell you to quit.. he more or less has probably forced this decision upon you by giving you shit about your smoking habits.. like the rest have said.. just tell him.. if he gets pissed it just not meant for you two to be together.. trust me.. hes not the only "great guy" in the world

 

Ummm, that's bullshit, dude. I don't make excuses. I have a long line of arthritis and degenerative disk disease in my family... my mom smokes it for pain too...

I'm not going to lie. I enjoy the feeling of being high... but the main reason I smoke IS for pain. Don't go pointing fingers about shit you don't know about, okay?

Thanks.

 

pwnd!!!

 

Well that changes things. Show him the "diagnosis from your Doc" and explain your usage. Unless he is a Fed what possible anti argument could there be.

 

Well, in case anyone is actually following this... I told him.

He pretty much knew... and he was upset that I couldn't tell him. He had hoped when I quit, I had done it for myself, not for him. We had a big fight, but we made up... thrice.

 

just tell, you tried going without it but found out you needed it for your back problems. that will be enough I think..

 

oh ok good
heh didnt read that before posting...

 

if you have back problems, and smoking helps, then let him know that you smoke so you don't have as much pain in your back.
and i agree, smoking behind his back isn't the best thing to do. so maybe you could try and talk to him and compromise and maybe you can work something out, for example, compromise that you will only smoke whenever he's not around or something