it's gonna be a great year if you let it. and Cate, 20s have been good and will only get better I think.
I dont even remeber 16. If it was any good, I'd remeber. I wanna be 50 cause I expect I'll achieve everything I want till then and then I get to rest, travel, etc.
the point is that you live now, and not in the future, because the future simply doesn't exist...now is all there is.
I was pretty psyched when I turned 16-I could finally drive and have that freedom of having a car...but when it comes down to it...it's just another year. Even tho I have the best birthday EVER! haha
when i was turning 16 i got shipped to illinois for a month to stay at my grandparents farm. i got to take my 5 year old sister. that was fun. 15 year old girl dragging a 5 year old girl through LAX, Phoenix and O'Hare to be met by an uncle she's never seen or even heard of before to be driven through chicago, then to a farm in windsor, illinois. my only cousin within walking distance was a 10 year old girl named sarah who had MS and was sufficiently cranky to drive anyone nuts. no one knew i had a birthday. it was WAY worse than 16 candles. my boyfriend had just dumped me.
my grandpa had just had another stroke and was stuck in a wheelchair. they didn't know how much longer he had and they wanted me to spend time with him. he was such a crotchety, argumentative ol' bastard that we fought most of the time. my greatest joy was hiding the remote from him after putting it on The Joy of Painting then leaving. i'd sometimes give it to the dog, mindy, to go stuff in The Rat Log out in the orchard. i had to stick something in her mouth to keep her from biting our faces off.
I was on the road for my 16th birthday...I had run away from the Plantation House in St. Petersburg, FL and was on my way to California by way of my thumb.