What Is Wrong With Me?!?! So Confused...

Wow.. where to begin.. well... sit back lol...

So ive liked this guy for like half a year.. I only saw him once a week at a friends house. I began liking him and flirting with him but he never responded in the same way so about 2 weeks ago i forgot about him and got with this guy ive known for around 2 weeks and hes so lovely. anyway we kissed etc and now i like this new guy but that exact same night... i saw the other guy aswel and he told me he had always liked me...

now i dont like him anymore... wtf? lol i know... i have no idea why but ive just gone off him and i have no idea at all.. its like i found out he likes me and i no longer like him.... now i like the other guy...

lets call the guy i liked for ages but then gone off of guy number 1 and the new guy, guy number 2...

right so i get with guy number 2 then guy number 1 now they both like me and i dont want to hurt eaither of them

the good things about guy number 1:
hes sweet....
he cares
the bad things:
he does drugs
he smokes
he doesnt have a job
hes... not very good looking...

the good things about guy number 2:
hes really nice
he has a job - the army
he doesnt do drugs
he doesnt smoke

the bad things about him:
hes confusing so i cant tell wot he wants...
thats about it...


omg so confused because i dont know who i sud go with...
WHY DO THEY ALL COME AT ONCE?!?!!?
lol
the thing is... guy number 2.. i got with him etc and the next day he asked if i regretted it and i sed no and so did he... (we were both drunk that night) but... the next day when we were out with our friends he didnt make a move on me....

wtf?

 

Well maybe you got over the first one? Maybe you just gave up on him and that's why you have no interest in him. Anyway i would pick the second one. Because the first one could drag you in deep s... forest. Although if you would have totaly gotten over the first one, you wouldn't be asking this yourself now, right? Well you got me a bit confused, hope you make the right decision. (for you)

 

Yea, I'd stay away from the 1st one. If he is using drugs at such a young age that indicates that he is either unstable, or with a bad crowd. Either way I don't think you should date him. Being sweet, especially in the beginning is common.

Also... how old is the guy in the army? He'd have to be at least 18. Ask yourself why he is after 15 year olds.

 

Yeah, what Snipaz sayed about the army dude. And i got a thought on this one, maybe you are confused because i sure would if i would be 15 and had 2 girls to choose from. The best thing you could do now is leave it alone for a week and make the decision without emotions involved.

 

if you liked him for half a year then whats changed ?
plus if the second guy hasnt made a move then whats going on?

 

stay wit guy #2 cause he dont do drugs yet...He's in the army take advantage of that and travell.. Find places to go that are hip that guy #2 will dig.. Get guy #2 high on the finest green....Somehow in a romantic location ......idk

 

the army guy is 17 and the other 1 is 18.