Recently, this girl ,that ive been friends with for a little while, out of nowhere put some moves on me. One thing led to another, and we ended up having sex. Well now she's been hinting that she wants a relationship. I think she's a cool person, but im a free spirit, and i really dont want a relationship. Truthfully i have alot of casual sex, and she knows it. I dont want her to get mad at me though, cause we've been friends forever. but i feel like because she instigated everything i shouldn't be commited to anything. What do you think?
Commitment aint for everybody (quote me on this one). Simply talk to her about everythin that you need to and try to get her to see it from your perspective while you see it from hers. Perhaps you could work somethin out where you see each other but in an open fashion so ya can do what ya like. I disagree with your moral structure about sex but it is your life choice so I hope my advice helps somewhat. Peace
