so i posted on here yesterday asking for advice because, long story short, i had a bf for 2 years, we broke up and a year later i went to mexico in march with a guy that became my new bf but didnt become this until june, and 2 months before june, april, my ex was leaving for a different country so we had goodbye sex and it was closure and it made me feel better about things.also march was the first time my new bf and i hooked up, but i hooked up with someone else on the trip and my new bf found out and went ape shit..but not until like 3 months later. some of you may think im a slut or something but thats fine. i was single...so i decided to tell my new bf about it and, bad idea...i told him last night and he broke up with me and was like "i dont want to be with you i dont want to be around you"...you see he lives in canada and i live in miami and he was coming down for two weeks but has only been here 5 days and is leaving tomorow...do i let him be or do i try to win him back, ive said everything i possibly could and nothing will help. my family thinks im better off and my friends say there is nothing i can really do...i understand that he's hurting but we werent even dating when i had sex with my ex. long distance relationships hardly work but we were in love....i dont know what to do. do i move on? we were dating for 8 months...but liked eachother for 3 years before..
I was in this situation last week. I found out the girl I was just starting to see had sex with her ex a couple months ago. I was mad because that obviously meant that she still had some feelings for her ex, while she was still talking to me. If I were you I'd tell him I that you are completley over him and at the time you didn't know what you wanted but now all you want is him. And the reason you told him is because you love him and would never want to keep a secret from you. But to be honest in my point of a view, its a really hard thing to get over...you may have to move on, maybe not time will tell.
thank you.... luckily this morning he threw his arms around me and told me he loves me and can't end it with me
