ok. heres the scoop.first of im three months pregnant. secondly my fiance is too scared to have sex with me cuz he is scared that he will hurt me or the baby. i told him a trillion times that its perfectly fine and i have done every thing to try and convince him. we even talked to a doctor and they said its fine. if any one has any thoughts or anything please share. thanx a bunch
your fiance of bf or whatever is an irrational pussy who thinks his dick is ten times longer than it actually is, next time he says he thinks it'll hurt the baby tell him not to flatter himself.
u can do it right up till the 7th or 8th month with out problems. u could tell him that it's sperm that feeds the baby. that's how eskimos do it.
Once you start getting a belly, apparently you can still do it doggy style and rest it on a bean bag or something. In pregnancy the **** is much more sensitive, so yeah, get it while you can.
please dont use the word **** i dont like the word its very offensive. and well i know all te transformations that i will go through and the new feelings that i will be feeling but my fiance just doesnt understand any of these things that i have told him so yeah.
ive never been pregnant, but i know its safe to have sex, really almost up to full term.. if he is afraid of giving you vaginal, what does he say to anal?
honestly, if uv gone to a doctor to talk about it, and your guy still doesnt want to, then idk if anything we say is gonna change his mind lol try hypnosis...lol or just use mind control..."IT...IS ...SAFE...." lol
Not only is it safe, but it is actually good for all parties involved, including the baby. And you can do it all the way through. There is no point when you need to stop. Our doctor actually told us to do it a lot in order to induce labor when she was late. Guess what? It worked!
If he's really uncomfortable about it, try working up to actual penetration --- Be intimate a few, or several times, and let him know that you don't EXPECT him to penetrate you if he's uncomfortable with it. There a million and one ways to have sex, explore some of them. If he's willing to try it, he just may discover the joys of having sex with his pregnant fiance!!! Let's hope he does! If he's just totally not willing to be intimate with your body after creating a baby with you --- maybe the two of you could schedule an appointment with a counselor, it could be he has a mental hangup that's keeping him from allowing himself to have sex with you while you're pregnant --- Who knows? The thing is, it doesn't have to be a long-term therapy situation, just a session (maybe two) to address this particular issue (make that clear with the counselor up front) and you can be on your way. Make sure you shop around for someone who is experienced and comfortable in dealing with sexual issues. It's okay to ask for help when you have a problem, a lot of guys don't like that idea, but really --- it's a matter of love, trust, intimacy and the willingness to grow your relationship with each other! Lots of luck to you & Congratulations on your precious little bundle! Gina.
Its interesting to note that Germaine Greer, the feminazi herself uses the word "****" in her feminist bible, The Female Eunuch. "****" is just as beautiful as "pussy", "vulva", whatever, its only when used in a derogatory manner that it should really be offensive. On its own, its just a word.
i would keep communicating with him - but get him to talk too. get him to talk not only about his hangup about pregnant sex, but also about his fears and hopes regarding becoming a father & husband. i'm betting the real issue probably has something to do with that. pregnancy & marriage means big changes for the man, too. i hope you can get him comfortable enough to try it - pregnant sex is truly amazing!
