How young is too young?

How young is too young to have sex?

 

It all depends on the maturity level of the young person. No one can say what age is right. But I generally think that anyone pre-pubescent should not be having sex. A lot of small children do play with each other though, and I honestly think this is healthy and normal as long as no one feels threatened.

 

when youre ready...
i think most people under 16 arent truly ready. even a decent number under 20 arent ready, but theyll still choose it
when you find a partner who you love and who love syou back, when there is mutual respect and trust,a nd when you both feel completely comfortable with the idea of having sex with one another

 

Anyone having sex, no matter what age, should consider their reasons. IMO, I will not have sex with someone I don't care about simply because it's awkward to me. Although I have considered doing it just once with a guy friend of mine, since we've both been celibate for about a year. He's supposed to be really good. And I know he's big. But I don't have the guts to ask him. And I probably wouldn't be able to go through with it anyway.
But my point is, just make sure you're doing it because you want to.
Remember: just because you have sex with someone doesn't automatically make them your S.O. (Unless you already were) so don't expect that to be the outcome and end up being disappointed when he never calls you again. That's called a one-night-stand.
Use protection and lube.
Know what you want.
Have fun.

 

quantatatively that is a hard question to answer, it depends on maturity level and whether or not the two individuals are in a healthy relationship.

as for the age of the person to have sex with , i usually hear the rule "half your age plus seven"

 

The older I get the more I saw a person needs to be older or atleast mentally older. I guess that comes with age (thinking older is better) sorta bias.

So it depends on the 2 people. they should understand and be willing to accept anything that may happen from it. I mean a quicky is grand but something can happen you may not have planned for. If your really mature you will have considered this and had a plan in place just incase.

So there is no magic age but I would say from my own stupid shit I did as a kid I was far too young but thankfully for me it never was a bad. (Latch key kids in the burbs we did really dumb shit stuff, real young with no parents around)

 

when ever you feel like you are ready

 

i wouldn't say there is any set age but i would say be sure about the decision your making

 

Every person has his/ her own development... It depends on how mature one is. I think we should all wait till we feel we are ready and not worry about whether we are too young or too old.

 

I like your thinking

 

Wow, under 15? Really?

I think you should have made more options.

Most of my friends, girls and guys, had sex between 14-16.

I personally think it depends on both partners.

I mean I've heard two 13 year olds screwing after Grade 8 graduation, but a 13 year old screwing a 16 year old is a bit too much simply because of the puberty factore, I mean girls start earlier but at 13 they're not yet developed whereas a 16 year old guy is pretty much done.

I would have to say under 13 is too young even if it's two 12 year olds chances are puberty hasn't worked it's way through yet, specially for the guy which would probably equal a 5 second session, in other words pointless.

 

I had sex when I was 12 with a girl 2 years older, I had only just hit puberty but the age I was never even crossed my mind when it happened, it just felt like a normal thing to do.

It was actually really crap sex because neither of us knew what we was doing properly (no foreplay, just straight penetration, we both orgasmed but it wasn't particularly good).

I think it really does depend on the mental maturity of the individual, I was always a lot more mature than other people my age.

 

Yes, wait till you’re ready is good advice but the problem is with movies and advertising and peer pressure etc. children are being pressured into thinking that they are ready at earlier and earlier ages even though they really aren’t ready.

So if you have to ask how young is too young the answer is, you are too young!

Remember there really isn’t any rush; sex doesn’t go bad if you wait another year or two.

 

Age doesnt matter honestly, its all about the maturity levels of the person. there really is no set age where sex is okay, or when it is not okay. However, there are two things that people should keep in mind, even if they do feel ready and mature enough to do it.

If you plan on throwing virginity away just because everyone else is, your not ready to have sex.

If you arent old enough to take responisbility if pregnancy occured, your not ready to have sex.

Its simple. IMO, these two things prove whether or not you have that level of maturity. This is so often mistaken for "wanting" rather than "ready for".

 

Doesnt matter what age you are
just do it when u feel ready

 

Experimentation has gone on (and will go on) from an early age.

With the graphic familiarisation now accessible however it’s easy to get caught up in the moment.

Peer pressure, can also a problem for young people. Individuals mature at different times and only when both parties are ready and willing should it be experienced.

There can be nothing more spiritually fulfilling than the loving act between consenting parties.

Don't confuse Sex + Love - Be aware of the consequences

Be Good - Be Safe

< Peace + Love ~ Save the Planet >

 

Do what you do. have fun, be happy and safe. Don't let people say you're too young or too old, let things come as they do.

 

i think you simply need to be ready.i think that people are probably too young at like 13 and younger, but that is just my opinion. i lost mine when i was 16, and i wish i waited untill i was truelly ready, and found the person i really loved. See, people told me that but i was the kind of person who had to figure it out on my own, and it was too late by the time i had figured it out. oh well.

Then again i can understand not wanting to loose it to the person you love. your first time usually sucks, it hurts, it's awkward, and some people dont want to be embarrased with somebody they love.


in all-it just depends on the person and their maturaty level.

 

Though I think it's better to wait till you're married (or at least going to get married), at least waiting till you're ready is okay.

 

Thats such nonsense. You might not get married until you are 30!