I have some pending legal issues, and I'm wondering if there's a way of going underground? **Legal issues are of a civil matter**
Do it man. Go for it! First thing to do is leave the Province and go somewhere and make up a new name for yourself. Then get your id's faked, and ultimately leave the country.
well, first you'll need to get yourself a sovel and then... but seriously now, are things that bad? and if they are what's been said already is porbably you're best bet, move outa province, somewhere rural is probably the best, and start from scratch good luck
I wish wanderin_blues would get back to me, that cabin of hers would be the perfect thing. And I guess I better come clean, just so no one worries that I'm some psycho axe murder. I was engaged to a very pro-life wacko, who claimed she was infertile, and allergic to latex. So of course being very much in love with her as well as being both young (18 at the time) and naive, I trusted her.... You can see where this is going, she got knocked up, and told me that she wanted me to have nothing to do with HER child. This lasted till my life started turning around, and now she wants money... Money that I of course can not afford to pay out.
Bailing is such a harsh word... But say what you must, I'm avoiding the legal issues that come with the situation. And besides, I didn't want the damn kid.
It would really seem to be a shame to me, to bring this lvl of drama crap upon WB's quaint little cabinly set up. And if you don't think this lvl of drama crap will eventually find you - then you are either naive or terribly short sighted.
Theweirdone, I totally understand your situation and I really feel your pain. I think it's unfortunate that some people would automatically attack you when you come clean like that. Some people are just morons and thats the way it is. If I was you, I would first try and work things out with her and maybe her parents. If that fails I would see what my options are before I take off (i.e. See a lawyer etc...). Bailing out would be my last resort. I think there should be laws protecting guys from tramps who lie so they scam guys into child support. Can you definitively prove that she wanted you to engage in unprotective sex? Did she prove in any way to you that she was infertile? What is her reasoning for not wanting you involved with the child? (i.e. Is her reasoning sound?) Again, bailing out would be my last resort if I were you. I would try and see what my real options are before I break the law. Whatever happens, I hope you all the best.
Since the knocking up occurred in 2001, there is no way of proving any misdeeds on her end. As far as reasoning with her, ya.... Tried that years ago, and she tried to psychically assault me, of course I told her my thoughts about her and left it at that; because I knew if I did anything to defend my self, I would've been the one riding in the back of a bacon mobile .
Almost as unfortunate as a child growing up without a father. Or as unfortunate as a child with a father willing to give up everything and go underground (but without the competence, apparently) to avoid helping him through life. Yeah, I'm the moron.
whao...just read past the first page after spending a half hr explaining the ins and outs to getting off teh grid... but Im not helping you run from your kid... whatever the issues are....be a man deal with them, that child is a life, you fuck that kid over and your fuck the world man... we change the world by changing lives...are childrens should be the first ones......get it together...... very not cool
You know, Stanley Tookie Williams didn't have a father. He went onto to start the LA Crips, and then got executed for a triple murder. Patriarchy and Mysoginy kill