going to bars/clubs to find sex partners

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Austinn, Jan 28, 2008.

  1. Austinn

    Austinn Member

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    Do alot of yall do this and if so, whats your success rate?

    Good or bad or so-so?

    I ask cuzz I have never really gone to a bar/club with the pure intention of trying to get laid, im curious as to whether or not any of yall can attest to whether or not its worth doing/trying.

    Im interested to hear anybody's experiences in this regard, just wana hear from people who have exp in this.
     
  2. Austinn

    Austinn Member

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    cmon if u have a tale to tell spill it people its an impersonal online forum !!!!!
     
  3. Alexxxa

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    Not only sex-partners but also future boyfriends! When I go to clubs I Allways wear miniskirt and intentionatelly I don't wear any panties! It makes me feel somehow feminine when a guy stands next to you and if he would only knew to look a little bit down to see it:H ! But he never knows of it untill we get near a place to fuck
     
  4. masterintx99

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    Doesnt seem to work for me. I get a little play, but never get a bj or anything. It's so easy for a woman. She could walk in, say "I want to fuck", and interview the guys that line up. A guy does the same thing and has to put ice on his balls after all the chicks that line up to kick him in the nuts!
     
  5. heywood floyd

    heywood floyd Banned

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    I find these places repulsive. It's nice to go there and have fun with your friends, but after a while it turns into everyone being too drunk to make proper decisions (which is sort of the point, I guess).

    Around three, they start pairing off and some go home. They smell like alcohol, sweat and cigarettes, but it doesn't matter because their senses are so dulled by the drinking. After that, they try to sober up enough to actually perform... but I suppose that sometimes the alcohol helps them last longer.

    The next morning, everyone wakes up and either feels good or extremely guilty. Sometimes, they feel good until later that day when they realize they've made a huge mistake, and then they feel guilty. But this could also be because they're so hungover.

    Then they tell themselves that they really want a meaningful, loving, and mutually supportive relationship that will last a long time, and swear they will never do it again. Next Friday, their friends call up and ask them if they want to go to the club. Then they say 'yes'.
     
  6. Austinn

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    Do they usually check ur age to get in? The irony is I dont drink much at all really so I wouldnt drink prolly anyways. See I dont drink so previously I have had no interest in bars/clubs, but I have other interests in mind.
     
  7. cruiser1911

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    the one experience I have had was with a chick from a bar it was a total disaster it Is funny now though two people totally shit faced trying to have sex at least dont masturbate two or three times before going to the bar the alcohol will probably cause enough problems at least it did in my case.
     
  8. LexLuv101

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    Not for me, sorry. I love bars with friends and my boyfriend but I never go there looking for a lay. In fact, it saddens me that I can't just go there to hang out without getting hit on. That's never what I'm looking for, so I avoid going without a guy just in case. I like it because of the music and the relaxed atmosphere from my local bar. Alcohol can make me in the mood but it diminished my orgasm and makes it harder to get off, so that doesn't do it for me much either.
     
  9. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    I always go to clubs to pick up, I usually pick up everytime I'm out. I hooked up with two girls this weekend while I was out clubbing.
     
  10. krainaoz

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    this kind of activity might have been fairly safe in the 60 or 70 but not now...
     

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