So, I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. Nothing that severe, just made out with our neighbor. My problem with it was she was not honest with me about it and I had to find out on my own what was really going on. And obviously, I was and still am extremely angry at her. I packed up all my things and left the apartment earlier this week. But last night, I met up with her to talk and get more clarity and closure. And while I was pretty much yelling at her, I had a sudden urge to fuck her and I acted on it and it was fantastic and raw and animalistic. But I feel like a creep because I just wanted to have sex to stamp "MINE" on her forehead, you know, reclaim what belongs to me. Anyone else experience anything similar?
nothing like that has ever happened to me, but i can understand where you're coming from.. i would probably do the same thing. maybe showing her how fantastic the sex was makes her realize that she made a mistake and should just be with you lol.. make it out as a good thing have you talked to her after the sex? if not, then you probably should
Ehm open relationship ? Me and my fiance are both Bi therefor we each give each other the freedom as long as we are honest about it It eliminates the cheating. By the way..was your neighbor male or female? Might have been that she simply wanted some dick if he was male ( i take it that you are both female since your tag says female )
Neighbor was female. My girlfriend is a lesbian, so she never "simply wants some dick" haha. And I know I don't "own anyone". I know this. I was just completely trusting of her and she went behind my back and fucked me over, so I feel the need to let her know that she cannot share her body with any one but me. That is if I get back together with her.
yep! Same exact thing happened with me only we didn't end up having sex or doing anything beyond a hug. My ex I'm referring too, and this was only about a month ago. But I'm glad that nothing happened again cause I think it would have done more harm than good.
A good part of fucking a girl is that if shes not a complete slut, she'll remember you for the rest of your life, whether it was a mistake or not. Youll always be connected to her in a way, mentally. It makes me feel good. Like in a nas song called "the essence" "Til i'm all gray and rusted, reminiscin' the number chickens that claim we fucked 'em"
I KNOW this, I really do. I am not controling, I don't view her as a slave. I'm ashamed of how I felt, needing to stake claim. But I have been really, REALLY hurt by all of this and my thinking is very messed up right now. I've been with this girl a long while, and we live together, and we were very much intertwined. She CHEATED on ME. In a relationship, a mutually committed relationship, I feel like my heart very much belongs to my partner and my partners heart is mine. When this is violated, I became extremely angry, and I have every right to be. I'm human! I just really wanted to know if anyone else felt similar when they were fucked over by a partner... jeesh!!!
Is this serious? My sexuality is not a preference. If it was, i would have definately chosen to be straight when my parents kicked me out of the house, or when my dad beat the gay out of me or when I lost a good chunk of my friends or when I get yelled at by strangers. I don't need to "fuck a dick". Our planet is over populated and humans are destroying the earth. By not "fucking a dick" I am doing my small effort to stop over population and inevitable self-destruction of our race.
two things: first, you are good for seeing you feelings as they are, you need to talk about it with her. she may not feel the way she used to. second, I think that homosexuality is the earth's way to stop us from reproducing. Evolution is a clever thing. in any case, noone should be berated or made fun of based on their feelings, because feelings happen, and are damn near impossible to control. I used to kiss girls, but I didn't want a hand in my pants, so i say I used to be bi curious. Awareness of your feelings gives you the power to learn and grow within yourself. You have to talk to her, not about what happened, but how it made you feel. How it hurt, not just that it hurts. I didn't mean to imply that she was your slave, I was just trying to expose the emotion.
