kissed a girl for the first time

yup, and danced with her and there was some foundling and neck and boob kissing

thing is, i was not attracted to her at all, so i was not "turned on" but it was sexy in a way.

even though it was my first real kiss with a woman, it did not feel special, is it ment to?

i think that when i kiss a girl i really am attracted to and it isnt in some bar then it will be better.

but yeah, i kissed a girl even if she was called carlos.

but i am still worried about not being turned on, i know i am attracted to women, so it confused me.

its like, i needed it, it felt natural, but empty at the same time.

what do you think?

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I think if you weren't attracted to her, then you weren't attracted to her. It's the same as if a straight guy kissed another guy. No attraction, no buzz, right?

 

it was weird because i have imagined it many times and i always thought i would be turned on and it would be great, then when it felt empty i thought, oh god does this mean i am not actually attracted to women? i have been so sure.

but when you look at it like, not all straight women get turned on by kissing any guy.

so yeah, i just need to find a girl i actually like, and there were plenty of beautiful women there.

thanks

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Exactly. Just because you like women doesn't mean you're going to be in love with everything on the planet that has a vagina.

 

hahaha well put



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EXACTLY. My first make-out with a girl was HORRIBLE...I wasn't in the least bit attracted, she was a horrible kisser, and turns out, she's as straight as they get so that definitely played a part. I agree with what you said above and what Bocks said...attraction isn't going to be for EVERY woman, despite the fact that you're attracted to them.

 

I don't think it can possibly be said better than Bocks said it. Nice work there, sugar.

 

I got a term of endearmennnttt

(thanks!)

 

i've kissed (and done more with) women whom i wasn't all that attracted to but i was lonely and horny, and yeah... it does feel empty. not empty because you don't like WOMEN, but empty because the vibe isn't there. when the vibe is there... it's unlike anything else.

 

where would i be without hipforums?

making this thread has really helped, thank you all so much

love it.

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Actually, I think this is an opportune moment for a Kudos! This forum just has the most incredible, welcoming vibe about it, and I think we should all congratulate ourselves for that. Way to go, fellow queers!

 

I read that bit about not being in love with everything that has a vagina and I admit I cracked up. Its totally true ya know. How is it that lesbians can have female friends and never have the urge to kiss them? Not everyone is meant to tickle your fancy, if that were the case your lips would wear out from too much kissing

 

Aw, group hug! Actually...let's just have a group makeout session instead. Spirit's gotta like kissing one of us, right?

OMG I need to go jill off, my libido is killing me.

 

lol yes im sure at least one of you will do

lesbian love fest!

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haha!! love it!

 

LOL! *contributes makeout*

 

Bocks, you didn't have a picture up before did you? I've seen the top half of your head! Your eyes are GORGEOUS!

 

Nope, I had Paul McCartney's gyrating head before. And thank you!

 

And maybe I should take a photo of my chin! Then you'll have seen my whole face.

 

Ooh, that would be exciting.