teens and oral sex

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by laurenq, Mar 2, 2008.

  1. laurenq

    laurenq Member

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    ok so i was talking to my mom today and i guess we can talk about anything but yea im in high school and she was asking me about oral sex and what not and she was at a dinner party last night and she said that 3 out of the 5 moms wanted their "teenage" kids to be having oral sex instead of intercourse and the other 2 preferred intercourse
    The 3 chose oral sex because it avoided pregnancy but the 2 that preferred intercourse because sometimes one partner is unwilling to return the favor i guess

    im just curious what other young "teens" on here think??
     
  2. BLUE-TARD

    BLUE-TARD Member

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    Most of the women I've heard from on this site said they enjoy both giving and receiving oral. If your worried that your partner won't return the favor, just ask them if they will go after you.
     
  3. silverhippy

    silverhippy Comfortably Numb

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    I am way not your age either but I would like to disagree with Crueluserboy, My mothers talk to us on sex was as follows, mastutbation is evil, don't even think about having sex until you are married, that made for a sexually repressed generation and forced us into rebellion. It is always better to be open about sex it is part of life, I'm not saying parents should give tips on sex, just be open and talk about it, it makes for a healthier atmosphere. So teach your children well, do not be uptight about sex.

    Peace
     
  4. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

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    I am 36 and my mom and I still occasionally talk about sex. We're not graphic about it, and have some great laughs.

    I also talk to my kids about sex, but do have a standing rule with my son that I don't want ANY details unless it requires medical attention. ;) He's 15 and a walking 6 foot tall hormone factory. When he decides it is time to have sex I want him to be able to make an informed decision, for his safety and my sanity. I do NOT want to be a grandmother anytime soon!
     
  5. lilchef

    lilchef Member

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    I am closer to your age and my mom and I had this conversation.
    Mom: are you having sex?
    me: no why(lied)
    Mom: its bad for you and not fun dont do it.
    When I left home she finaly cought on and now the subject moot and on my lil brother life.
    Mom: (to lil bro) be careful no glove no love
    lil bro: thanks mom I will

    Its all about if you are the boy or girl. trust me if your moms friends had daughters they would feel differently
     
  6. Naoki_ninja

    Naoki_ninja Bruce Lee's hero

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    i have never had oral sex or intercourse, but i think it's kinda weird that 5 moms would be talking about what they'de prefer their kids have where sex is concerned. That's just not a good conversation starter..."so, you know what? i think my kid should have oral sex instead of intercourse"-awkward.
     

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