i need to find a differnet way of pleasurinmg the guy iam with.. i want to see what feels better so i need some ideas.. i tried ice and he said it wasnt that great,... help me outt... people!!
Ice? why ice? girl, you dont need anything more than your mouth, your hands and plenty of saliva. Lots of saliva.. not like gross dripping off ur chin, but make it wet like a pussy would be, and a firm but soft toungue. Oooh.. warming flavored lube. like eating a cherry popsicle, only better.
make sure your teeth are not in the way, and dont stop..no matter how tired your jaws get. giving head is an art, not something that can be taught, you kind of have to get the feel of it, and you must enjoy it more than he, or else it wont be a good experience.
vary between mouth and hand, between fast and slow, use your tongue on his cock and balls, nibble along its length, squeeze it between your breasts- whatever feels comfortable. talk dirty to him while you are pleasuring him if your both up for it, slip a finger up his ass while you blow him. tie him up and give him an excrutiatingly slow hand job, make him watch as you pleasure yourself using your own juices as lubricant on his cock. just go with the flow- dont do anything your not comfortable with, its supposed to be fun for both of you. above all....have fun !
My new "girl" gave me head for the first time on sunday it was fantastic !!!!! A tip: Avoid your teeth the friction does hurt, but thats my opinion other people might like it. Its easy to identify pleasure by the perons reaction to you actions, just pay atention to how he acts.
Well don't read cosmo... I don't think they actually know what they're talking about haha. If you lick up and down the shaft and flicker your tongue down the shaft and on the head I think thats nice for the guy, I know my boy likes it.
sift through the oral and anal subforum of the love and sex forum for some really good tips mostly... enjoy yourself, and dont skimp on the saliva/lube
you should suck on the tip like a bottle, but avoid the teeth!!! also play with the spot just a little behind the balls. also try sucking the balls too.that seems to work for me...
HAV FUN WITH IT!!! playyyyy.... it's sort of like a game.. by even slapping it every once in a while on ur tongue would give him pleasure... he just wants to see that ur having fun as well..
There are some good tips on here. I agree with lots of spit, though not too much. There should be some friction. It loses some feeling if there's too much spit. Keep your lips over your teeth and keep your lips kind of tight on his dick. Keep a steady pace if he looks like he's trying to cum. Nothing is more frustrating than to have a woman quit when you're almost there. Play with his balls while you're sucking (caress and fondle them, don't be rough). Change it up by using your hand, either while sucking or alternate between using your mouth and your hand.
Another tip is to look into his eyes while you're blowing him, and make some noise. slant 117 is right when he says that it helps if it seems like you're enjoying it.
Halls mentholated cough drops.. they will make his penis tingle while your giving him head.. you just have to remember not to choke on the cough drop.. flavored/warming massage oil... humm deep in your throat while your blowing him..
