I recently divorced and moved into the house where I grew up. The only thing that really gets to me about this house is that my grandfather passed away here when I was about 3 years old. Ever since then, all the times I've lived in this house, I've heard things --- such as, him walking down the hall toward the bathroom. I've also "felt" him here in a variety of ways and places. I've only had one "seeing" experience and it totally upset me, but I've not had another one since then. The thing that bothers me now is being here alone. My grandfather did some not very nice things when he was alive and to be honest, his "presence" sometimes makes me uncomfortable, as though he's trying to stake a claim here, or just doesn't know where else to go or something... I've done some reading and mostly feel that this is a "residual" type "haunting" (if you care to call it that)... I guess I'm wondering if there is something that I can do to either let us exist here without my being uncomfortable, which I am at times, OR encourage this residual spirit to move on to something else - whatever else is out there for him. What does someone, anyone or everyone think??? Gina.
Hi ginad1026, ok here is a bunch of suggestions of how you might wanna start to change things. ((( Be the one yourself ))) As you are your own best tool to change the world so to speak. And besides that, stay open for surprises. So just start with being comfortable within yourself no matter what circumstances. Find forgiveness inside and the courage and humour too that is needed here. Clean the house ... play music on a musical instrument (you might want to start something else that is new here) in those rooms and corners you feel are most stuck with the energy pattern. Anything that feels good to you helps. Take it all as a chance to let go, and change on. He is just a mirror of your own needs. To find answers go deeper inside yourself. Be aware of where you feel stuck yourself with old patterns of resentment, and solve the knots. Be the one you want to be, in all the beauty and wonder and freedom you can imagine is yours. And he is the one, too. Love him for who he is and appreciate him, and do not judge him. I think it is all about just one thing, to love from inside out and start with loving who you are. And the lessons do not run out, and any lesson that rises in front of you is good, and is as good and worthy as you honour it, by honouring your own potential to love and embrace what is. So just love him with all your power and all your vulnerability, and let him go at the same time. He will be happy, and so will you. Sometimes we are so good in creating dramas. But we are good in creating healing, too. This is always a choice. And fear ... is but another tool that you choose to keep attention, and it is not you who is occupied with fear then but dwelling in it it is you who occupies it. This is a choice, too. So don't fear to be scared, don't fear to be uncomfortable. Just be the one you are. You came here for a reason and I am sure it is called ((( change on ))) Ok I hope this is useful for you !
