We NEVER have SEX

Whats going on? We only have sex about twice a month. It is still a pretty new relationship, i don't get it. He is also not aggressive enough. What should I do?

 

be strait forward with him and tell him whats up. if you ever want a healthy realsionship you need to communicate.

 

^^^^^

What he said.

 

yep. cant expect him to be uber aggressive if he doesnt know you want that. usually guys are told theyre too aggressive and need to calm down, some take it a little too much to heart. besides, sex isnt gonna be all that good if you cant even communicate about it

 

Ask almost any guy and he can tell you. Tell us what you want. Most of us aim to please and we don't get our feelings hurt that easy.

 

As a woman I will agree with you. Most men are happy to say what they want and to hear what their partner wants.

Oh, I disagree (to a point). Not saying men are big sissies, but if a woman isn't tactful when telling him what she wants it doesn't go over well. I can't say I would blame a guy for feeling crappy if his partner said "you're doing it all wrong!" I know I would.....and then I would say "finish it your own damned self then!"

 

yea its interesting cuz some guys are all over you and then some arent

i dont really know why but yea i guess just tell him

 

Also, some guys don't like sex that much. Most people think that men are really sex-driven and want it more than women, but I haven't found that to be the case. Most of what I've seen is women wanting it just as much or more than men. So you can't rely on him to suddenly start having sex more, once or twice a month could be all he wants.

So, you need to talk with him, ask him if he wants to go further and have sex more often. He'll probably be more than happy to help you out .

 

I had the same problem when I lost interest in my ex, is everything else in your relationship going well?

Seriously, your sex life is normally a reflection of your every day relationship....

 

Maybe he's just a gentleman? I bet if you tell him how much you want it/are willing, the floodgates will open. Poor guy's probably ready to burst.

 

try raping him; yank his pants off and tell him that you want it, willingly

 

I have the same thoughts about my wife.

Why don't you and I go on spouse swap and everyone will be happy. I could go for some 21yo puntang....

 

put the move on him. a lot.

 

Just what i was thinking.