Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months now and i dont know if i still want to be with him. I love him to death but i just dont think its going to last much longer. I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I was his first and i think that if i dont end it now im just going to get hurt because hes said to me before that he wants to experience other girls. At first when he said it he told me that he was just kidding, i honestly dont think he was. What should i do? He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me but does he really? If you were a virgin and you were with someone who wasnt would you want to experience with other people? Its so hard to let go of him but i want to do the right thing, i dont want to get my heart broken over cheating, thats like the worst thing ever to do to someone you love. So please help me with this. Its been bothering me for a while now and i want to figure out what to do and just get it done with.
I think you should just talk to him about this. I mean 11 months, im sure you guys have great trust for eachother, and even if you dont, if your planning on living together, your going to need to be able to communicate so test it out now and see how he reacts to sitting him down and talking about it. Dont hide your feelings tho, tell him how it makes your feel and what you feel might occur and ask him to be honest and look you in the eyes.
It's just commitment jitters. Don't worry about it. Either talk to him about it (Which I strongly suggest, it'll relieve you in the end) or just ignore it like I do.
