recently ive had a couple chances to get with girls. i was with them and im pretty sure they liked me. one of them asked me to go to a movie with them. i planned on making a move on them and even though im pretty sure they like me, its like im not 100% they do, so when it comes to the point that im about to go for it i cant. i start thinking alot and say ill do it a little later and never do it. what should i do?
haha... they this, they that... i'd ask the girl who asked u about the movies. just go for it man, or you'll just regret not doing it later on when u knew u had the chance to be with someone. it'll eat at u if u dont, im sure u can feel it right now. haha. and im not sayin to jump in there just for sex, ur thinkin about gettin rejected way to much, and if she turns u down, its not like ur gonna die. its a small leap u'll have to learn to face. best of luck bro. "Fear is a disease that eats away at logic and makes man inhuman."
Eh, the main thing that should cause you to fear asking 1 of them out is fear of rejection. You don't even have to worry about that, so go ahead and just go out with 1 of them. Don't get stressed out and think of it as a date, just act natural, like you're going to a movie with a good friend.
no its not asking her out that i cant do, its once were out i cant make the move to kiss them. its like once that happens ill be fine because im sure they like me as more than a friend but up to that point i cant be sure if they do or not.
Dude, pick one. Are they even up for a threesome? And if that's not what you want from them, it seems disrespectful to me that the only identity they have for you is that they're both female. Does it not matter to you which one you get, as long as you get something female?
no im not looking for a threesome. forget about the other girl, i was just using her for an example. the one girl i went to a movie with, i like, but i couldnt make a move on her. im just asking if theres a good way to deal with this fear or a way to be sure shes really into you.
Look into your feelings until you understand them better before trying to force yourself into something that isn't coming naturally to you. There are reasons for what you are feeling. Maybe you need more time.
well she asked u out to a movie, hangin out with u... i dont see a reason why she wouldn't like u... just tell her u like her. theres no body language goin on? lol.
