How can I keep from premature ejaculation? When I masterbate. I can masterbate for hours but as soon as I see a good looking babe am done. Sometimes I feel no presure inside. when I do cum its not as strong. what cuzes it?
If there's no force behind it you may even be talking about precum. Many men don't produce precum while masturbating alone, but do so when with a partner or when mentally stimulated. As far as premature ejaculation while with a partner is concerned, the best solution is to masturbate a few hours beforehand, whenever possible. The main cause of premature ejaculation, however, seems to be that of excessive mental stimulation. I recall one occasion when I was with a man who was having his first experience ever of gay sex, and he even surprised himself that the peaked very moment he penetrated me - something he's never done during straight sex. It seemed the mental sexual excitement was just more than he could handle.
Check out my thread on 10 techniques to cure premature ejaculation in the "Sexual Health" forum in Love and Sex. PM me if you have any questions.