I'll admit I am a lesser endowed male (5 x 4.5), but: - Do I let it get myself down? No. - Do I let it influence what girls I go after? No. - Do I fear being rejected because of my size? No. Bottom line is, it's all about perception. I willing to bet that half the guys that are lesser endowed can't satisfy their partner because they lack the confidence to do so. Be proud of what you got, because it's what you have and it's what God gave you. From a more scientific point of view, the estimated length to penetrate enough for an orgasm is 3". That spectrum encompasses below the average size. Girth, indeed, is a more important factor, but just because you are below average in this department doesn't mean you can't get your partner to achieve an orgasm. You just got to work a little harder. The bottom line? Go in with confidence, regardless of what you may be packing, and you'll be more pleased with the results. And another tip: Go Oral if you can. It's an unbelievable way to stimulate your partner, and by the time you get to them, you may not have much work left to do, if you know what I mean .
My gf is a still a virgin, I too am, and recently we started exploring eachothers parts orally.... I still have yet to finger her with more then one, I do have fairly large fingers which she comments on. Another thing she said the other night we were fooling around, she had mentioned, If that is only one finger? How are we going to have sex? You have a very girthy penis hunny.... I'm going to have take advil before we do. I could only smile when she said that. I think I have an average length penis. Maybe 6.5, and a fairly large girth, and I didn't really appreciated it until that night she made that comment.
You really don't have anything to worry about. So long as you take things easy the first time, paying full attention to her reactions - or even get her to take the lead by going on top so that she can control the rate of penetration. When all said & done, remember that the vagina is designed by nature to be able to stretch to the size of a baby's head. Also, plenty of foreplay is advisable as this not only gets the vagina to swell in readiness to accept a penis, it also triggers the release of more natural lubricants If she still doesn't produce enough natural lubricant, then don't be afraid to add some, such as KY.