i like girls that i cant get

i love girls that i can not have, not like super models or celeberties but just girls that i meet and are friends with. im attracted to very beautiful girls like homecoming queens and cheerleaders. and to make it worse every girl that likes me,i have no intrest in. i just cant find a girl im attracted to and shes attracted to me. ive had girlfriends but i havent been really attracted to them. to make it worse i have a VERY VERY VERY LOW self esteem and i can barley even talk to girls i like.




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Yeah, I've been there. I just can't go out with a girl that I'm not attracted to, and most of the girls that ever liked me (That I know of) haven't been attractive.

 

thats society for ya

 

Sounds like you're cutting yourself and getting upset that you bleed.

 

eye candy is like candy, sweet but short lasting and normally problematic later in life!

 

But imagine never having a taste!

 

Well, usually I am attracted to men that are already taken...

 

Alot of girls tend to do that...

 

yea i think a lot of people kinda want what they cant have

i know for me some part of liking someone is ohh do they like me you know kinda like the chase i guess

 

yeh i know what you mean, im in sort of the same situation in that i cant get chicks, but just for different reasons...

i know heaps of chicks, and i can talk to them easily, but the few chicks ive liked in that way have been either;

1. ive met them cause there going out with one of my friends
2. i go on dates with them...then a week later before i get to see them again i find out they hooked up with one of my "best friends"
3. i find out ages after i meet them that they've had a boyfriend for over a year

and then the chicks that have liked me.... i cant stand being around them

 

I'm attracted to extremely intelligent men who others think are nerdy...mmm brains...
Don't think I ever wanted or liked someone just because they didn't want or like me, I tend to stay away from people who don't care for me...

 

i used to be attracted to men who turned out gay...

 

i think its somethign about obtaining the unobtainable

 

sucks for you nigga,.... a lot of men only like the chase and nothing else. and once you get the "homecoming queen" or cheerleader that you want you may find that you have lost interest.

i know because i have the same problem with men. i have a lot of good looking, sweet men trying to get at me and no matter what i always think i can do better and lose interest.. even when i do find a man that lives up to my standards i still find some reason or another to push them away

 

eh, i cant get anyone, so im like past the whole picky thing, id pretty much go out with all most anyone right now, but....yeah, ugly, boring, stoner....the list goes on and on...so now im pretty much depressed as hell

oh, plus all of my "friends" dont even really like ,me.... so yeah it sucks

 

Yeah I'm also attracted to girls who aren't attracted to me. If I find out a girl is then I will probably not care anymore and be interested in someone else. I can't help it. I want the girls that don't want me.

 

I know how you feel, I like a few of the popular girls, and they have no sexual interest in me. They talk to me, but never "get to know me". The girls who do like me, I don't like too much, and when I do go out with them, It doesn't feel right.

One day, I just wish to sleep one of them.

 

I always have really hot girls that seem out of my league, but I'm never truly happy with any of them.

 

I'm attracted to my ex's brother.

 

Really?

That must suck for you