When he goes up there it feels good but after I am soooo sore. I bleed for a couple days after. Is this normal and is there anything to help with the pain? Is it that he is just too rough?
more lube, more lube, more lube, and more lube!!!!! Once you have an ample amount on.... MORE LUBE!!!!!!!!!
ditto with everyone else. Make sure you are using plenty of lube, than add a little more. It also sounds like you might not be relaxed or accustomed to the size. Try starting small, a finger or a small plug and relax with that, get used to it. Really I would recommend you start out all by yourself, when you masturbate just let a hand slide back and start with some self-anal ply. When are are comfortable and able to relax with yourself, move on to a partner....
