More attracted to one gender?

Hi Narcolepsy, yeah I know what you're talking about. I definitely think your sexual preference can shift from time to time and that it can be influenced by a whole range of things, not least of all the gender of the person you happen to be in love/involved with at the time. But then again you can be bowled over by anyone at any time. I'm in a long-term straight relationship right now but have become smitten with more than one woman during that time. I haven't acted on it cos I'm committed to this relationship, but I definitely still go weak at the knees for women I find attractive.

And attraction is not by any means physical, for me anyway, I fall in love with minds. Best wishes

 

Hey,Narcolepsy,
I know what you mean,being Bi has been difficult to get comfortable with since my feelings were changing all the time.I did'nt know what I was and it made me very uncomfortable.Being Bi whatever type of relationship or intimate partner I have means realizing my Bi nature.Whom I'm with does not define my orientation.I'd be Bi weather I was in a relationship with a woman or a man.It's tough to understand and get comfortable with.I wanted some assurance and validation of who I was sexually and otherwise.I don't know if you're Bi but for me I'm attracted to both genders equally.There are times though when I feel more of an attraction to one sex over the other but that can change and does all the time.It depends on alot of factors espicially the person,it can be confusing.It's not a gender I can fall in love with,it's the person.When I'm with a woman it's easy for me to say I'm straight giving me assurance and validation just as when I'm with a guy I'd want to say I'm gay.It's really hard to be in the middle.Labels can somehow hold some reassurance and safety for us.Labels though (if you're going to use one)should be accurate so be careful.Bisexuality has not been reconized as much as the gay or of course straight community,so it can be confusing thinking you have to fit into one label or the other.Be yourself that's what matters your happiness!I try to enjoy what I'm feeling at the moment and relax,just being myself and not getting freaked out about it.Sounds like alot of people go through what you are,so it's not uncommon.
Peace & Love,
J*

 

I love women of all types I do not even look at men. I have only been attracted to two guys in my life from a sexual point and both where 18yrs old they where much younger than me, they both had very feminine features just like I did when I was thier age. As far as my bisexuality I would like to have a ass sex with a guy and for him to cum inside me that is it, I have no desire to suck his cock or even kiss him, strange I guess but this is me.

 

Defintely more attrcted to women. Only like to have sex with men. Relationships with women only.