i feel it's just the song that survives death . a person's strong vibration can carry on ~~~~~~~ and into the future for those who need to hear it . i heard it most clearly when i lived with a tribe in montana - a beautiful chorus , a song upon the lake . it went on and on for as long as i wanted to listen . an old music of many voices singing . it seemed i was not creating it , just giving that ancestor song the energy of life . to me , this is all there is to life after death . the ancestor song . ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~ ~ ~~~ it's just a love for life , a prayer into the future . when my grandpa died , yes , a few days later his song was in my eyes . he never did say much . he just laugh to me with sparkles that one time zany spirit laughing wonder joke .