Wishful Thinking...

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by AltF4, Feb 24, 2008.

  1. AltF4

    AltF4 Member

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    Do any of you ever wish you were bi or bi-curious?

    Just curious on any responses or reactions from males and females.

    Being a guy, sometimes I wish I could have the benefit of some females where they experiment with friends just for fun sometimes.
    I guess I could, but I feel like it is too, out of place for guys to do that kind of stuff together.
    If you think about it, if you are bi you can experiment with either sex which = more options = more fun. I am not really sure why I think it would sometimes be fun to be bi, but for some reason I would probably be not able to do it and feel too awkward or as if it was out of place.


    Any thoughts, opinions, stories, or advice ?
     
  2. The Lone Wolf

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    Having sex with a woman is awkward the first time.
     
  3. AltF4

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    Yea I guess so.

    I wonder if wanting to be ass fucked makes me bi curious or something (even though I cant stand the thought of a guy doing it)
    Still would be nice to experiment, if I could mentaly block that it is with a dude haha.
     
  4. bushwacker

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    When my wife and I are under the influence of certain drugs we like alot of assplay. Mentally I think I want her to stick something in my ass but it never feels that great. I do love to fuck her ass as well fuck her ass with dildos bigger than my dick...is that weird. It's like I just want to send her into total ectasy. I also like to DP her with toys when I'm in her. We've never swung but it's probably the next step.
     
  5. PineMan

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    Ever since I first began to masturbate I would fantasies about both both sexes - in fact, as is probably quite common to most boys, in my adolescent years mutual masturbation with other boys was the only form of actual sexual activity there was. It wasn't until I was 23, when I was raped by a 40 year old woman that I lost my virginity.

    However, despite having started to have fairly regular straight sex, I still continued to have fantasies about having sex with other men, along with the memories from circle jerks during my youth, but I didn't have any idea of how to branch out to try it out for real. That is until literally only a few years ago when I got up the nerve to register my details on a few online Swinger sites, namely Adult Friend Finder, Silver Daddies & Adult Hub. After a matter of just a few days I received a response from someone who was in town on business, and I arranged to meet him in his hotel room, where I lost my Gay virginity, both top & bottom.

    That first time was rather nerve-racking, but once I'd made that initial step, all subsequent encounters have been much easier, and I have also been the first time partner for quite a few others.

    While I remain primarily Straight as far as romance is concerned, I've found that making contacts for straightforward physical Gay sexual satisfaction is far easier, and the anonymity of the Internet dating sites makes it easier still.

    When all said & done, the genitals don't give a damn as to what sex the partner is (if, indeed, there even is a partner at all) - it's just a matter of stimulating the right nerve endings. For example, imagine a situation of a paraplegic in hospital, unable to satisfy himself getting so extremely horny that his perpetual erection is getting painful, so his doctor agrees to arrange for one of the nursing staff to ease the tension by way of masturbation. However, in order to avoid any embarrassment he would have a screen placed between his upper & lower body. In this way, not only would he not know who it was that was providing the service, but he would also not have any idea as to whether it was a male or female nurse - physically it's all the same. However, the psychology behind any sexual activity can also make a big difference to the enjoyment factor. The anonymity in itself could be more exciting mentally than if he were to know who it was. In the same way, meeting for one-off sex with total strangers, be they male or female, can also give quite a mental buzz, consequentially adding to the sexual pleasure experienced.
     
  6. The Lone Wolf

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    A lot of guys want a woman to fuck them with a strap on.
     
  7. kirlia1991

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    im not attracted to girls at all, but for some reason i only get turned on watching lesbian porn and girls masturbating.
     
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  9. smoothie6in

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    I would rather be done by a guy. women with strap ons just don't seem to be able to get the right rythem. Besides I think it would be fun feeling a dick pump you full of cum.
     
  10. AltF4

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    So I am guess you would be Bi to experiment in that way?

    (It's unfortunate I can't just trick my mind into being bi haha. Perhaps first I need to overcome the Male Refactory Period before trying to get into the Bi mindset. I have a feeling if I can trick my mind into that remaining horny state, then they similar process could be applied to the Bi Conversion. Although I have still been unsuccessful in that MRP Overriding due to the hormonal release imbalance which triggers that mindset of complete loss of sexual POV, which = lame)
    Hopefully one day.
     
  11. runnerman

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    i would prefer it if a woman was to fuck me with a strap-on.
    Not other guys.
     
  12. AltF4

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    I agree. It would feel soo good I bet.
     

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