well..what better way to get everything out than telling a complete stranger or two. Iam tired of all this, its been about 3 months since my gf moved in with me in my parents house. since then my parents stopped doing ANYTHING, including cleaning up after themselves(like simply putting thier plate in the sink). Iam the only one whoever cleans anything because yeah iam sorta a neat freak but now even moreso being 7 1/2 months pregnant. I've even cried several times because this house is so dirty. The floors havent been mopped in a month, you have to stand a foot away from the fridge so your feet dont get stuck to the wine spills my parents left and i cant mop because it hurts the hell out of my back.then theres the CATLITTER, lol i caught one of my cats using the litter with just thier back feet in the box, I CAN BARELY GET ANYONE TO CHANGE IT FOR ME.(toxoplasmosisorwhatever)no one vacuums, does dishes, blahblahblah on and on. Then theres my mom, whos about 53 and drinks every damn night and stumbles in every damn morning. when i was about 4 months pregnant she came home out of it and started fighting me saying shit like "AND YOU YOURE JUST A LITTLE SLUT ARENT YOU" and started swinging punches at me and my gf. i got a nice red cheekbone from that. but yeah, she still drinks alot and everytime she does i go hide in my bedroom. Hell iam 18 and hiding from my own mom. My gf just got a job though, so maybe we'll get an apartment before the baby comes in december, but then again she doesnt save money well or anything. iam scared she'll just spend it on things we dont need, and we'll have no furniture to sit on. i cant tell her what to do with her money. and my parents wont help us out at all, i think thats because my mom wants to keep me here with the baby, but why the hell would i wanna stay here? anyway, type back if you want.
yes yes.. i agree.. it really sounds like you should get out of there, at least now while you have still a few weeks to sort something out! .. take care of yourself x
like they said get out of that situation. if you need help for when the baby comes, theres this program called wic, and there are thousands of clinics out there to help expectant mothers and father. if your girlfriend doesnt save money that well theres section 8 housing in any apartment complex. so my advice to oyu is go to a hospital, or call the police ( not 911) and tell them your situation and ask if they know of any clinics or programs that can help. thats what i did. good luck.
hope i have helped you sweetie. take care of yourself and your baby. hugs and kisses ellie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Get out of there now, hon. For you, your gf, and your baby... There are plenty of programs and people who would be willing to help. So please... Holly wishing you the best...
i am so sorry to hear about your situation. that is so sad but you can survive. you have to do what is best not only for you, but for your unborn child and gf. i agree w/ the other posts and have no other advice to give you, but i want to know that if you need any emotional support, feel free to email me. right now, i have a difficult situation w/ my family/best friend so i understand that having someone who cares makes a huge difference. If you ever need anyone to listen to you, my email address is stickchick24@happyhippie.com. i dont have internet so i have to go to the local library so dont get down if i dont reply right away. i just want you to know that you arent alone and there are people who do care. well, i wish you the best of luck and if you need anything, you know the address. peace & love kim
Ooo.. I feel for ya. I've kicked out roommates before because of the friggin dishes. I can't stand picking up after people...especially when preg, and trust me, it won't be any better when you're taking care of that 24 hour a day screaming bundle of joy, and people STILL expect you to wipe their ass for them. Leave, leave now, and get a place with a dishwasher.
