i think i'ma break up with the boyfriend

it's just the little things i can't stand.. am i crazy? he's a very nice man.. but the little things are already getting to me.. fuck!

:leaving:

i should blog this.. but i need your silly feed-back

 

Is his thing little.

lol jks.

 

ALREADY! Just the other day you were saying you just met 'em and he is perfect.

 

you REALLY dont want my feedback....

 

yeah, that!

 

No one's perfect. Do you usually break up with guys, over the little things? Is it really worth not giving a nice guy, a real shot becuase he has little quirks, or whatever?

 

Meh, If he is good looking just tune him out and look at him.

All relationships are annoying.

 

never said he was perfect.. we clicked instantly.. which is good, but now that i know him a little better.. i'm not so sure.



i've only had two boyfriends in the past 2-3 years.. i've just got too much going on in my head to deal with this.. i'm feeling trapped already.. thats all i can say.

 

you have a blog?

can i read it?

 

Does this mean that maybe I will have a chance?

 

Feeling trapped...

I know that feeling...lol.

But it may have more to do with me, than with whom I'm dating.

 

boogs..thyat was kinda quick..i mean wasnt it just 4 days ago or so u met?
hey i'm all for ya breakin up cause then got alot more time to hug ya..but u do desserve to have a chance to be happy so why not give it a full weeek before u decide?

what are the lil thingds that bug u
and what do u like?
are the lil things bigger then the things u like?

 

getting over big things in a relationship is easier than getting over multiple little things

i think me and my boyfriend broke up...but i really don't know...
it sure did last long

boog want to break up with your boyfriend too? we can run away together

 

i shoulda been a lesbian! damn it!

yes.. i blog on here mostly..


i'm fucking sad over this.. but it's just not right.. and i told myself i would NOT make myself crazy again because of any human.

i can list the pro's and con's.. i think the con's outweigh the pro's


maybe i should start smoking crack and hanging out at KFC

 

Wait. You went from meeting him, to you clicking instantly, to you getting to know him better, to you feeling trapped all in four days? Slooooooooooow doooown.

 

I am going to be honest, people are saying "it's a little quick and soon"

The quicker it is that you end it if you are not sure, the better it would be. Don't wait until the relationship gets more serious and long and then end it, it would be better to do it now if you are not happy or even not sure. If you are not happy then chances are if you "wait" you will probably become more miserable and unhappy..
Good luck boog...

 

If you think he is worth it , dont let the little things get to you, and you can always talk to him about it.

 

lemme make some list..

pros:
he's a cancer with a scorpio moon
he's 5'5"
he has a 5 year old
he lives in town
he knows reiki

cons:
he's a meat eater
he works for a company that kills bugs with chemicals
he's a dork
he can't cook
he has almost no body hair and shaves his whole head
i don't like his shoes.. LEATHER.. icky
he keeps telling me not to hurt him
he wants me to wear shoes so i can ride a different kind of bicycle with them clip pedal thingsy..
he complains about my bed, which i LOVE
i think he's already in love with me.. or something


hhmm..

and it hasn't been 4 days.. it's been a week, today.

 

love doesn't take time
when it clicks, it clicks
and if it doesn't, it doesn't

my grandmother met, fell in love with and married my grandfather in four months, they'd still be together if he hadn't died, and she loves him still till the day she dies

 

I think listing pros and cons might have something to do with it.

I, myself, wouldn't recommend approaching relationships on such a cerebral basis. Just my two cents.

Do you think you're punishing yourself? Are you looking for punishment? It may be the continuation of the pattern.

There is no reason to beat yourself up for breaking up with someone you're not compatible with.