if sexuality were purely a choice...

But it's not SEX that has addictive tendencies. It's US!!!! lol

 

Why is asexual not a choice?
I am hetero, but I have days where I can't stand guys and all the chicks I know have become really bitchy as of late... Maybe it's something in the water around here...

 

Yeah...

But there is still something addictive about sex, and so on and so forth and blah blah blah.

 

And crack, cocaine, heroin, cigarettes, alcohol, food, TV, sleeping, daydreaming, lifting weights, snapping your fingers, scratching your head, reading, forums, travelling, masochism, sadism, sports, etc. etc. etc. et al ad infinitum.

Yada-yada-yada.

It's US! HUMAN BEINGS! WE have a tendency toward addiction. We make addictions out of virtually everything, if you notice.

 

Yeah, you can get even get addicted to collecting rocks.

Yet there are causes for these addictions... it's beyond the fact that we simply have an addictive personality as humans.

 

I'd say being attracted to guys would have to be a lot easier.
Just be obvious.

I would say that, but girls are worth it.
At least, they can be.

 

because (like i said) i didnt think to make it one

 

I am pedosexual and I would choose to be asexual.

 

asexual would be great...


if that's not an option, i would still be attracted to women, but i would learn to go for the ugly desperate ones that i might actually have a chance with

 

You're a pedophile?

 

i love men, love love love men!
i get called a slut because of it
i am just trying to find the right one for me
i love people, but i could never see myself being sexually attracted to women
i wish i could, i've had lots of gorgeous women find me attractive
but it's just not something i'm capable of
i'm pretty happy with my sexuality though
if i could change one thing about it, it would be making myself less shy and prudish when it comes to sex
i love loving someone and making out, i'd kiss everyone, but thats different
when it comes to actually having sex i'm rather inexperienced, and i get really nervous

 

me too...I hate getting nervous.

 

Huh.

 

I would choose to be asexual...it would make things so much easier. I love both men and women....I'm usually more attracted to men. I guess because it's easier for me to dominate women that are attracted to me. I'm just tired of being attracted to dipshit men.

 

i would want to be gay if it wasnt for all the cock.

 

i would not change a thing
i am heterosexual and feel good about it

 

well i think everybody is bisexual. its just that some people are more free to express themselves than other people especially men. i dont know if this is because of society or because of people own fears. but i do think its true that everybody has same gender fantasys and i really do think its human nature
saying that i have had many fantasys involving both men and women but have only ever experienced men
but i do know that maybe i will experience same sex relations
gender doesn;t matter its the person inside

 

sorr i didnt answer the question a just rambled lol
i wouldnt change because i dont think anybody needs to
i think its all just a mental block
live free be free and love free

 

Same dude! ...although, I think the reasons might be slightly different

I kind of like girls, but it's hard to explain because it's not in a gay way and it's not a lot... I think there's only one girl I'd even consider "doing", though I've kissed many girls in a friendly way.

 

I would want to be straight if it wasn't for all the cock. Oh wait, I am straight and I love cock. Never mind.

I'm happy the way I am: I'm straight except for when I'm fantasizing about having sex with girls.