Cant smoke any more and im going to die!

im 16 and i been smoking for about 2 years, im a smart smoker never got cought or even suspected of...but it finally happened i got caught by the old mother....she flipped out and cryed and shit it was bad, but she calmed down and flushed my stash....50 buck worth. she knew i was a serious smoker by the bag and i have to take a drug test every 20 - 30 days...and it sucks so bad cuz i love to smoke i love it "marry janes the only girl who wont break your heart" any who you think there is there any way i could convice my mom to let me smoke? i mean my dad(lives in another state) smokes and alot of are family dose and i dont see the prob in me smoking i mean the worst thing that could happen is i could fall alseep or be funny. she think its so bad cuz its a "DRUG"....if she seen i was smoking sigs she would let me(that i dont do)
you think theres any hope in me asking? and what are some good things i could say?


Love,
Benjamin

 

Flushing 50 bucks worth isn't too bad. Respect your mother, it is her house. My dad doesn't mind me smoking in my room as long as my mom doesn't find out.

Talk to her about it, do some research, and explain to her why you do it. (if it's not recreational)

You can still smoke with a test every 20-30 days, especially if it is a simple home test. Just drink lots of water and piss a lot before the test. This will dilute your urine. Also take vitamin b-12 this will give your urine the yellow color, since your piss will be clear from all the water.

 

i think 'skierdood' on this forum told us that he did some research and showed his mum or something and proved to work. i dont 100% remember but that was what kinda happened. Anyway, just do good research, show her (if you print it get links that link back to the site so u can prove it aint some hippy site that tries to prove weed aint bad. Get real good sites which talk about how its not addictive, cannot overdose, not as unhealthy, statistics of accidents (none basically), and tell her why its still illegal (a few reasons, such as the alcohol companies paying the gov to keep it illegal etc etc) just do a bunch of good research, save all the legit sites and show it to her. Make it a serious conversation not "btw mum check this out.. can i smoke now?"

Walk up to her, serious n all, start talkin bout other shit, then present the research to her and tell her to read it seriously. Tell her how MJ has guided u in life and all that shit and how long uve been doing it and that theres no problem.

hope this helps

 

Yeah- I think the old 'Alcohol does a lot more damage to your body, and causes much violences etc etc' works pretty well as alcohol is generally accepted.

Also, if she will let you smoke, ask her why she thinks weed is worse....tabacco is more addictive, so you smoke more of it, meaning it does more damage to your lungs and you waste lots of money....plus it doesnt even get you high

 

i was faced with a similar situation just a few weeks ago. this was not the first time i have been caught though. it took a lot of explaining and research to show her that weed is not as bad as she thought. she also thought i could get arrested for it but here in ohio under 100gs is a 100$ fine. i also told her how marijuana has positively influenced my life and. she finally struck a bargain with me and i am now allowed to smoke once a week and eat it whenever i want. try this and you might succeed, but if it doesnt work out you just may have to accept the fact that you cant smoke for a while. it may be hard seeming but it is very easy. best of luck to ya

 

Yeah, I presented my mother will all kinds of statistics from legit research that was done. The only thing is I am 23 and considered and adult I just happen to still be living at home because my college experience didnt land me that awesome job like everyone thinks it will and my living arrangements are much nicer here than they would be if I was splitting an apartment with a bunch of roomates.

My parents pretty much respect me as an adult and allow me to make up my own mind on what I want to do. I also prove to them that I am a motivated worker and hold a full time job and am currently busting my ass trying to get moved up in the ranks.

I also explained how I use marijuana as a safe way to fall asleep at night as my parents know that ever since I was about 8 or 9 yrs old I had the hardest time falling asleep at night.

Pretty much as long as you are very professional about it and dont come in saying he look I have these facts can I go get baked now? It also helps to understand your parents. If you feel they will be understanding its worth the shot, if you think they will think you are being a snot and trying to just prove them wrong for your own benefit (which in reality is what you are trying to do) they might make it worse for you.

Just assess your situation and see what you think would be best.

 

Dude it's just pot, it's not like the end of the world or anything. You could smoke some in between tests or even give up pot. If you NEED to get fucked up just drink on the weekends or do something like coke that leaves your system faster.

 

maybe -- if you get straight As she'd let you smoke pot - get the grades first, & then say 'mom, its so important to me to smoke pot, I went & got straight As - but I think I'll be so dissapointed if you won't let me smoke pot, that I won't be able to keep getting straight As"

ps: - don't say it exactly like that - say it like a regular kid would say it -

good luck. It's too bad your mom got so mad at you.

 

start with i think its marijuanaprocon.com and do your research give her all the actual facts\
its an herb, not a drug..
its got medicinal value for millions of peiople and is entirely safe and non habbit forming
give her enough info that she knows youve made an informed mature choice, based on facts not peer pressure
and let her know that constant testing will only make your life miserable,
let her make the decision she makes based on real truth, then just abide by the rules she sets..if u cant smoke for awhile how willl it really hurt ya..u can always smoke again when u leave home