ok so about 3 years ago I went to school with this guy, and I totally fell for him, like seriously he was like my crush forever. and last summer we drank a little and we ended up making out and talking and he didn't really say he liked me, but yeah he ended up walking me home. and a few months later, we drank again and we totally liked each other, despite the drunkenness I could tell that we could of made it as a couple and that we had a really good connection. So he asked me out and we went to the movies and after that we got something to eat and their was alot of tension in the air, I don't know but it was just really awkward, we just were really uncomfortable, and there was alot of awkward silences.but yeah like a week later we decided that it wouldn't work so stopped seeing each other, but i still hang out with him sometimes and it's like weird because I know that I kinda still like him, he's a cool guy you know.but mysis told me that all he does is use girls like he takes them out and has sex with them and just dumps them
ok and so she said he's basically a player right and I kinda don't believe her, but it just sucks that we really didn't get to go out alot, when I know we would of really made it as a couple. like we have the same intersts and things. But right now I'm just friends with him, and one time we were hanging out and I was talking to this other guy and he kept on like staring at me and right after that he was like I'm gonna go home now, like he was kinda dissappointed or something( my crush I mean). and like I've never had a boyfriend or a good guy friend so it's not like I'm used to talking to guys one on one like that. But I think if we hung out more and like in a different setting and all I'd be alot more comfortable with him. but my sis always says when we hang out asa group that I can't talk to him cuz this other girllikes him too, but it' not like I have a crush on him now, oh well sorta, but that's only because we didn't really get to go out much. so what should I do, remain friends, not hang out with him at all. But I feel like I shouldn't give up on him, on us?
Well look he is a guy, which means he WILL NOT mind if you go up to him and let him know that you like him, as long as you think he likes you as well.
yeah I tried that but I end up hanging all over him so I think he knows i like him and he says let's just be friends.
and I'm always drunk around him which isn't my best judgement, but I don't know if he likes me like that and like I said I think he just wants girls for sex
