Girls and Boys... On average how long does oral sex last, doesnt matter if its just oral or part of foreplay...
Not since I was 17 have I had just a blowjob and that be it, in fact I can only recall three times where a girl just sucked me off. I've always looked at it as foreplay and even as that for me most of the time foreplay is massage and sensual body kissing. My first sexual act was getting head when I was 15 and I came in like 15 minutes, but I also recall a time where it was like an hour and she kept taking breaks because I just wasn't coming. To me a mouth going up and down on my dick is a lot less stimulating then me whacking myself off, so yeah oral sex alone does take a long time to get off on.
if im getting sucked off it usually takes 30-45 minutes...the people who i have sucked off all busted in my mouth between 15-30
If its just oral it can be up to 30 min. If she's sliding her hand up and down my shaft at the same time, less than 10
I'm the opposite -- sex just isn't stimulating enough usually for me, it's somewhat boring, I mean it's fun but not that great, oral is a lot better and I cum a lot faster and actually can finish. Sometimes with sex it'll be like an hour and I'm just like, eh, this is boring, forget about it. I'd say usually 10 minutes if she's at all good, otherwise maybe 15. If she's amazing probably 5-8 minutes.
if im doing him it takes about 15 mins before he comes, if hes doing me then he does it for about 5 and then gets fed up or i tell him not to bother anymore as it just doesnt work at all, best it gets is he slobbers on me enough to get me wet enough for him going inside.
Depends on how much the guy loves eating pussy. It's been 2 minutes to half an hour. With my ex, it was always 10-15 minutes, and my current boyfriend, it's 5-7 minutes. I haven't gone there with my fwb yet, but he loves it, so hopefully it'll last long. I'll give him incredible head in return.
I've given head to 3 guys and with all of them (as long as they haven't already cum) it has been about 5 minutes. I think a LOT of girls dont know how to do it properly. Using your hand and suction is key!
I'll get the wife off a few times a session. I've conditioned my tounge and jaw to eat puss for an hour or more. I've developed an oversensitive penis since I quit drinking so usually about 5 mins and I'm done. Fucking sucks - same way with fuckin'. So I eat pussy to make up for god hating my cock.
glassdildo, have you tried the different creams they have to numb the penis somewhat? lol if you are really desperate you could always get on an anti-depressant....those fuckers really lower sensitivity. Thats really nice of you though that you are so considerate of your wife Also, try just rubbing/pulling it multiple times per day....be as rough as you can without hurting yourself. You should lower the sensitivity of some of the nerve endings over time.
Tried the creams and all that shit, but then we both numb up and it takes too much away from everything else. Now that you mention it, I was on zoloft when her and I got together. Quit taking them right around the time I quit drinking so much. Could be what the connection was there. Any thank you! I am good to her - Surprising seeing as what a dirty, nasty, inconsiderate pervert I make myself out to be on here. Hey, we've all got two sides, right? Well, I have two sides for just about every person that I know. I have to hide who I am from people for fear of rejection, job loss, disapointment and all that. Even though, as you indirectly pointed out, I'm a pretty good person all around. But that's another thread.
well when we do it he can be there for over an hr or as little as a few minutes, it all depends on how much engergy he has, its dont for him tho as it does nothing at alll for me, i dont even get wet from him doing that, more a case odf me allowin him but it does get some damm boring after 5 mins and i just want him to get on with something else or finnish him off, sooner the better really as we both can go to sleep then, actually he sent me to sleep doing oral on me a few times
I think you are correct about the hand and sucking. I have never gotten off although I have had my dick sucked for 30 minutes before I got tired of not reaching a climax. The best bjs I ever had the women insisted on deep throating me. She was so proud she could swallow it all. So, she would never pull my cock. I didn't feel like telling her how to give a blow job. Nor, have I ever told any of the few who have gone down on me. I probably should, but I just can't seem to. I appreciate their efforts.
I think its important to be vocal about what feels good. I have so many girl friends who think they are really good at giving head, but when they describe what they do, it doesn't sound like the correct technique at all (of course, I'm sure for different guys different things work). both partners are so much more satisfied if the person is really enjoying it. If a guy was going down on me and was using far too little pressure/the wrong spots, I would tell him, nicely of course, what I would prefer he do. I think its better to say, "hey, can you try this.....oh yeah, that feels good" than telling them they are doing something wrong.
Oral lasts on me until the girl gets tired. I love getting and giving head but mostly giving because the girls I have been with cant make me cum. I have only cum once. I give head until the girls cums ALWAYS. That is usually 5 - 15 minutes.
fuck i can never cum when im getting a blowjob, i went over an hour once until my gf's jaw was sore n we both said fuckit. ive always wanted to blow a fatty load down a girls throat but it just never happens