girlfriend told a lie, I cant turst her now...

my girlfriend ever told me a lie ,she play some game with other guy and punish something I dont want .anyway~my friend told that thing.we get quarrel,and I was upset~
recently,she hang out with her friend ,I worry that whether she tell me lie .while she come back and I would ask a lot problem that make her touble.she say that why would you ask that?you dont belive me...

I dont want ,but I cant control my think...

 

What !!! you seem to have your own little language going on here, or is it a mystery code, and part of the fun of trying to help you out is trying to figure out just what you are saying.

Peace

 

The guy is in Hong Kong, so this is a language issue.

Anyway, in general, lies and distrust never fully fix themselves. Time can make the hurt less distinct, but you'll always remember that she lied to you.

People can choose to accept the lie and try to make the relationship work, or they move on. Its a personal choice whether or not you find it worth it to continue in the relationship.

 

Sorry, I did not see he is from Hong Kong. Meant no offence.

Peace

 

now that was funny!

 

read it again lmao.....

 

I know how you feel. If your other half lies to you. The TRUST is over because you wonder if they are telling you lies or the truth everytime they say something. They just don't know what problems it causes. Trust is not something that is there, They have to earn it But when broken it is broken. It takes longer now to earn it back. The other parnter now has to understand that He has to work twice as hard to get it back. If he don't then I say why be in the relationship.

 

haha~~
I feel disgrace....

friend~~don't laugh,,,

hehe

 

trust is really important but if she apologized then i dono im a strong believer in second chances, without them we would all be fucked

 

^ right on man.....I say just talk to her about and see if she will come clean.