So today at work the question was brought up "hey, what do you like more.. giving or recieving oral(sex)"... This is probably one question i cant answer... kinda like "whos your favorite band/artist".... though im kinda leanin more twords giving... because if there is one thing i love.. its eatin a girl out for hours... so... can you answer this question?
giving, mm i want some pussy, and the flavour of a nice pussy, mouth watering getting is alright, but not my favorite
I prefer to please, I'd like to think I'm good at it. I'm not against receiving, I just feel self conscious for some reason. Blow jobs are so easy. I remember asking my mom about them, and we went to dairy queen an a "field trip" so she could explain. Coolest mom ever. No need for embarrassment. Heres an added question: How much do teeth bother you guys? my hubby says I don't hurt him, but sometimes I freak out that I hurt him on accident. I've always wondered., seems to me that any instance of teeth would hurt. Great poll!
both odviosly are great, but if its a choice of 1 or the other id rather give the best sex is when both like to give n give n give till they cant give no more
It always seems like most of the guys I've been with haven't been crazy about receiving.. So I always end up receiving myself much more than I give. Which is fine with me cause I've always felt self conscience about giving lol. I feel like I'm not doing it right or not good enough or something. But I certainly do love receiving..
well in my experience, receiving good oral sex (i mean GOOD head!) is the ultimate in sexual pleasure..... however, in my experience, not all girls are capable of giving me what i really want in this department, and it feels really lousy to not get off but not wanting to hurt her feelings, tell to stop cause she's no good.... if you get good head, it can be WAY better than good sex. but with bad head, i might as well just not bother. on the other hand, i've only gotten exceptionally high praise from the few females i've been with when going down on them, and i always enjoy it. i've never had a complaint, and they seem to love it at least as much as i do. and i fucking LOVE going down on a girl! theres nothing i dislike about it really, except if i'm out of practice (like now, its been a long long time since i've gotten laid) then my jaw hurts after a while...but i persevere because its just that enjoyable. i know what to do so that i enjoy the experience, but i also know what to do to make HER enjoy the experience, which is far more important (hey, the two aren't exactly the same thing....but i put my focus on her always) so while i love getting good head, i suspect what women have to do to please me may be a bit more difficult than what i have to do to please them (no matter how much effort i put into making her feel good, i'm not going to gag or choke or anything....i can't blame a girl for not wanting it all in her mouth...) so i guess i have to go with giving, because i know i will love it, pretty much no matter what. with recieving, if its good its REALLY good...but sometimes it isnt even worth bothering with.....sometimes i'd rather just go down on her, and then make love the good old fashioned way....
69 ... I'll eat yours and you eat mine. It's my favorite. Takes some shifting to get the proper angles, but once you're in a rhythm together, it's incredible. No one feels left out. It's a WIN-WIN situation, as my boss might say. My wife and I almost always cum in sync. Thoughts?
i like pleasing and to be pleased it's not really all that fair to be receiving it all and not giving back
the way i have always looked at it is that while vaginal intercourse still feels good for a woman, its far less likely for them to orgasm from that alone than for the guy to get off. even if they do, or attention is paid to the clitoris or something else is added to the mix to get the girl going, women are generally able to orgasm far more frequently than guys. for me, i usually prefer to go down on her till she's satisfied, and then if i can get her off by means of regular sex, then hey, she benefits from getting two orgasms. good for her, cause i can't do that! but if not, then i've given her something, and then she's given me something (and even sans orgasm, its not like the sex is unpleasant for her so long as its done properly) at least, thats how i think about it.... i mean, it makes me feel like a douchebag to say this, but if she can't take it all, i probably am not going to want to get head from her. i like the feeling of being completely inside of her, regardless of what kind of sex we're having. if she can't at least get more than an inch or two down, then definitely not. i never really enjoyed having a girl focus on just the very end and using her hand to supplement it. i can jack off on my own just fine..... whats really, really mind blowing (err...so to speak!) is when she's able to just open up and let me take her at my leisure....... :& but then, my first girlfriend spoiled me big time....into some pretty kinky stuff, and loved being dominated and stuff, and she gave INCREDIBLE head.... nothing since has ever, ever compared.
haha no fucking way!!! I am totally listening to the dirty version of that song as I pulled this thread up!!! hahahaha
Don't get me wrong, because being eaten out is GREAT, but I'm always self conscious and I had the impression that guys absolutely HATED eating out...I guess I've been mistaken haha. I dunno, I don't have a gag reflex...and I like to make him happy hahaha