My friend (kreg) and I are really close with each other and in the last year have been getting very close. The only thing is we are not "dating" is because of my previous experiences with relationships. Anyways we have been having sex for around 3 months now. He really wants to go out and be open with everyone, but I don't know if he is just sayting that or if he is only in it for the sex. So I made a deal with him, I said that "if we don't have sex for a month then I would definatly persue a relationship with you". He was fine with that but he said "why not until summer"? I agreed because I would really like to see if he is in it for real, and I figured that it wouldn't be to hard. Wow was I wrong it is day 7 and I'm dying. I don't know how he is doing it, but I don't think I will make it, but I don't want to crack first. Does anyone have any advise for me, should we reconsider the time frame? Or has anyone else done this or been in a relationship where a situation like this has come up? Does it work?
pretty much if you two are hanging out still, stay out in a public place. it may seem like a serious thing to keep up, but one of you will definatly be tempted if left private. i know its hard to deny our most human instinct, but just say or do somethin that would kill the moment.
as soon as you wake up, walk to mirror and tell yourself you're a sexual camel and that you can go months without sex. each day will be easier than the one before. of course you could cheat and fool around with someone you doesn't want a relationship with you.
remember the goalk and let it build day by day ya know each week u wait will bbe that much stronger study tantra together work woth the sexual yoga without acvctualy having sex communicate with easchother, if your doing this tigether then openly talk about how ya feel and wether or not tpo cut it short but..try if uy suceeed in a few months the 1st time the bonding will be so much stronger ofcourse if closeness is drivin u insane iu gotta talk about it and either decide to give in or find ways to think of other things when you talk close your eyes, forget aboiut eachothers looks and physical bodies and work on really bonding with the person not the skin when the momment is right though..dont question it dont stop it..and dont regret it if u dont make it a few weeks just the closer ya get to tyour goal the more amazin it will be to get there
so i just thought i would let everyone know, we both caved in over the weekend. But everything considered it was worth it and we are now pursuing a relationship. Thanks for the advise everyone
