why are Cancers such EMOs?!

I hate crying, but sometimes I can't help it. But I hate people seeing me cry, esp if I have no good reason for it Sometimes I hate being a cancer cuz I don't want to care about things so much.... but I do... itz hard for me to let things go sometimes..

 

Maybe she has depression and/or is going through a rough time in her life. Sorry, but I greatly despise this whole "emo" title for every person that is having a difficult time. To me, emo describes music, fashion, and a trend in general (a trend I wish would fade away, but a trend nonetheless). Crying every other day, even if it is over little things, is a signal something is not right. Now, of course, I am not referring to spoiled kids who are crying over not getting a new Mustang and 50 pairs of new shoes. That is pure greed.

 

lmao! I love this title lol

 

we are a water sign.... it just makes sense.

 

because emo people are malignant and cancerous. duh!

 

I wouldn't use the term ''emo'' but of the many cancerians that I know, only one of them ISN'T - ultra sensitive and moody. Gotta love em anyway tho.

 

I'm cancer... and yea, I can be moody. So what?

I don't think all cancers are though, I mean, I wouldn't call myself emo, but I can get emotional at times, but then agian, so can everyone. *shrugs* You could say something like that about any of the signs, but it's always going to be a generalization and not be true for every person.

 

i always found pisces to be alot more emo than cancer. actually theyre not really emo theyre kinda just nuts.. i think theyre very mentally confused

 

All the Cancers I know as emotional basket cases... especially me.

Except my BF... who has his Moon in Cap. He denies feeling anything

 

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i'm a cancer, but i don't think i'm *that* emo, now no one is completely cool 100% of the time after all and I generally don't express what i'm feeling openly.

 

That sounds like a rash overgeneralization. i am a cancer born around 7 AM on june 26, 1988 in the year of the dragon. I agree that Cancers tend to be more emotional than most people, but it is biased and immature in its own right to say that this makes them the least mature and most prone to be selfish.

The ability to feel and empathize so deeply brings with it a large burden of hyper-sensitivity which also comes with a lot of pain, but this makes a person more likely to see the suffering that others go through more clearly and put their own problems aside to help those people. the experience of deep pain leads to the realization that that kind of pain exists, which leads to the conviction that there are countless beings suffering, which often leads to the altruistic intention to free people from that suffering at all costs, which practices like Buddhism are entirely built on, exemplifying the most mature of humanity's potentialities.

many cancers i've met have been deeply empathizing and motivated to help others, and even some of the most mature people i've met, so i dont think its fair to label them as immature because of that emotional quality, or because of someone's particular interpretation of what it means to be born under that sign. also, there are just a lot of immature people, regardless of what sign they're born under, and those people are the ones who often come to mind in discussions like these.

 

My boyfriend's a cancer.. && he's deffie on the emotional side..

 

Im a cancer born 71890 and its tuff i cant control what goes though my head, yeah im known to snap for no reason i cant help it im loving life one minute and down on it the next. Ive cried when ive lost someone close to me,ofcourse had been depressed alot. I wish i had more confidence and that i wasnt so sensitive but ofcourse that hard outershell is always there protecting me but whatever i yam what i yam, One important thing i think i need is to have solitude to just get my head straight. I change everyday :/

 

oh yeah im stubborn as hell and wont back down from anyone i guess that can be a good trait not the stubbornish

 

Cancers are definately emotional little things.... great cuddlers too. Very sensitive as well.

 

im a gemini female and my boyfriend is a cancer. uptight, emotional, sensitive, money oriented and insecure are the bad things about him. the good things though are his charm, sense of humor and optimism. he's great in bed too. cancers rock.

 

my dad and brother are both cancers...they arent emo they just emotional and sensitive which I think are good qualities

 

I'm a female Gemini with a male cancer too... Aren't they the biggest cuddle bugs??? love em!

 

yeah, my boyfriend loves to cuddle too. though he hates to kiss. i can't stand it cuz i absolutely LOVE to make out. just one of the things i have to compromise i guess.


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