I have a bestfriend who is always stunting on me for this one 1 bitch who she has been breaking up wit and getting back 2gether with her for 3 yrs now. Me n ma bf have been friends for almost 8 yrs now and its been really shaky for the last 3yrs since she been fucking with dis dumb bitch. SheZ made her lose 3 apartments... 2 cars... 1 job... has cut her... spit in her moms face... i beat her ass once...spits in her face when she gets mad....picks up cable boxes and throws them at her or anything else thats around when she gets mad. Its so many disrespectful things that this HOE has done 2 ma bestie.... she even FUCKed 5 other HOES there whole relationship since theyve been together. Recently me n ma bestie have came back together and been chilling with each other cuz about a year and 1/2 ago i stopped being around her cuz she played me for this TRICK 1 last time. I moved away to another state and came back about 4 months ago...since then she broke up with the HOE about a month ago and was moving on with her life. I was so proud of her for a minute... but she cant let go of the girls child so that puts the dumb HOE still in the picture even though she doesnt even take care of the baby anyways. Anyways this past week my bestie has been not answering my phone calls.... and I havent seen or heard from her....she knows how I feel about her girlfriend so she feels that she needs to duck me so she doesnt have to hear my mouth. Today I looked on her myspace page and I see that she in a relationship and all these pics of this BITCH is back on her page.....I was soooooooo surprised...even though I knew in the back of my mind that her being back with her was a possibility... I was juz in denial. Right now I am really confused on whether I should still remain friends with her cuz she juz doesnt care about me once this BITCH comes around. She ignores me.... n I dont even see her. She wont even talk to me and be real about her FUCKing with the HOE AGain. Her attitude is even different with me... she very ignorant and acts like all she cares about is the dumb HOE. Me being the person that I am.... I look out for her whenever she needs me.... give her money for gas when she on E.... let her borrow ma shit..everything. When that BITCH stole her money I was there buying her shit to eat. N she doesnt even appreciate me for that. I dont know what to do anymore...I know she has her own life and I cant make decisions for her but I dont want to lose her as a friend. Someone please give me some advice.
FINALLY! An African-American issue! I can work with those! Bud, if you wrote ALL that about the bitch, it's obvious you don't wanna hang around the bitch. You got ME angry at her ass and I don't even know who she is! Let go of negative people like that. And you 20? Lol, I know 15 year olds with these problems! Brush her off. I'd still say a "hello and goodbye", but uh....that's about it.
yeah, although you've been a good friend to this girl, it does not seem like she's been there for you. It sounds like she's been taking advantage of your generosity. You definitely need to move on at this point, or at least make one final attempt at regaining your friendship with her by telling her if she doesn't get her mind out of the gutter, she's going to lose a good friend.