Just Feel So Depressed

i don't know why you shout at me when i went to the chatroom.
you can tell me where i am wrong,but please do not shout at me

and i will tell you i am gay,if you are against gay but at least i did nothing to offend you...

really,i feel so depressed

long time ago,i was wandering maybe in other countries,the situation maybe better,at list they are not looked down,but i think maybe i am wrong.....

 

some countries are more open than others but there will always be people who hate. you should move to a more accepting area if you have the option to. in the city i live in people are very accepting of gays, i think it's like that for most of canada/us but there's still parts that don't accept it. there's also countries where homosexuality is still looked down on and even executed for it. not sure if i understood your question but no, the whole world doesn't look down on being gay, just certain countries and cities can be more anti than others.

 

Hey Raymond, I don't know why some people are creeps but it seems thats how it is around the world. Pick the places where you can relax and express yourself safely. If you venture into places where you know or think there might be creeps...be prepared for their crap.

Man, you seem seem like a great guy to me...you don't need crap like that and I'm sorry it happened to you. Please take care of you, Steve

 

Hi..Chinaraymond..


It Saddens Me To Read Of Your Bad Experience.........But Don't Lose Sight Of The Fact That The "Internet" Covers All Countries....All Religions....And Most Of The Worlds Population Can Access It In Some Form Or Another..........And Whilst Not Trying To Sound "Scarey"...There Are Some "Weird" People Out There..........I Have Read Many Of Your Posts...And You Sound Like A Sweet..Sensitive..Educated..Young Man..........Something Similar Happened To Me A Few Days Ago On Another Forum.........I Posted What I Thought Was A Well Thought Out Post.....But The Very First Reply I Got Was Quite Hurtful......And Has Left Me Wondering To This Day..."Why"............Please Don't Let One Person Who Is Having A Bad Day..Spoil Yours...


Cheers Glen...

 

thank you
i just wondered why last night two guys shouted at me
they spoke dirty words to me in this forum's chatroom

 

thank you Steve
what does "a great guy to me" mean?

 

than you Glen......
i think i feel better now today
i hope you can have a good feeling today too.

 

Raymond, I think you'll get over it.

Whatever frustrations life brings, for young men the easiest way to relieve those frustrations is to hate and express anger.

Homophobia is ultimately more about the issues the perpertrators have rather than actually hating gays. You dont get it anywhere near as much from girls or guys once they reach a certain age and the hormones settle down.

In short its largely testosterone related

 

though i cannot understand some words but i should say thank you

 

It means, I think you are a very good young man. I like you and I am happy you are here talking with us about how you feel. Please ask us questions when you need to know the meaning of something.

Having you here is good for all of us. Thanks for talking about what happened.

 

Country doesn't matter. whatever sexual orientation, who ever you are and where ever you go people will discrimnate against you because they like to do it. they have their own fears about inadequacy and so catergorising things into right and wrong(presumably with themselves in the "right") makes them feel better. I know its hard, but try not to worry okay love? you are who you are, and that is beautiful.

 

thank you when i feel depressed or when i meet some bad things or good things i will share with you,because you are so kind

 

yeah, i am who i am.thank you Spiritawakening.........

 

Me too. I am as depressed as a man on one of Jupiter's moons.I am not gay but I find myself feeling a bit like Carrie White. Sort of like the outcast. The one everyone hates and misunderstands ( C'est est la vie. Être plus précis. Ma vie).