Need help and friends

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Lucryster, Apr 1, 2008.

  1. Lucryster

    Lucryster Member

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    I'm having a hard time accepting I'm gay. I've already came out to everyone but father. I've lost all my friends. Mom and brother have stuck by me. Friend that stayed has been real cool.

    I'm kinda scared. This turns everything upside down. And have no one to talk to. I see on different forums guys referrin to their dicks as pussys. That just don't sit well with me. I don't know what to think.
     
  2. princesspeace

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    Anyone who can't accept who you are ,isn't really your friend. As far as parents are concerned,they generally come from a different era,grew up with different views,some may accept,while others may not . Although it is tough to take,their upbringing and ingrained predujices may make them not accept or understand you. But you need to be what you are and do what makes you feel honest and happy. If someone on a forum refers to their "dick" as a "pussy" ,it sounds to me that they could be a transexual or a confused person. I'm not sure what I'd think about that either. I think I would avoid those forums if I were you(don't believe most of what you read on the internet-LOL.). Be what you are,do what you feel,live life as a good and honest person, and feel no guilt for your sexual preference. I accept the fact that you are gay,and I respect your decision! It amazes me that some people still don't accept being gay in this day and age(it's fairly common!). I firmly believe that people should do what makes them happy! Oh, and you do have someone to talk to,if you want to talk, I am here.
     
  3. Lucryster

    Lucryster Member

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    It would be nice to have someone to talk to. This is kinda embarrasing but the guys I've slept with are kind that are the one night stand kind. Just because that's how I was able to run into.em Ya know the type. Guys that will pick ya up for the night just for sex.

    I'd love to have someone to talk to about it.
     
  4. DareinLaRose

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    well running into those types are bound to happen.. its part of the way of the world. People try and equate sex with love and in the end forget that to most.. sex is just a pleasurable event to have and then move on. But yeah it is hard sometimes to find people to just talk to.. but there are always people on this forum to talk to,.. you atleast have that.
     
  5. pineapple08

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    Hi

    I have some understanding of your situation. If you want to talk I am happy to give you my MSN hot-mail address.

    Regards
     

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