well this is one of my straight crushes so i guess it doesnt contribute much to this forum, but nonetheless i need somewhere to rant it, so here it goes.... he's my english teacher and i have such a ridiculous huge crush on him it's not even funny. it makes it really hard to talk to him. whenever he says something to me in class or whenever i say something, i blush like crazy and i cant help it. i'm terrified of seeing him or talking to him outside of class. i get goosebumps just thinking about it. but seriously, i've never loved anyone my age as much as i love him. he's not old, probably about 35-40 but he does have three kids, the oldest is 15 and i used to be friends with her. so that's weird. but still. gaaaah. i sort of think about him a lot, but part of me is creeped out by the ways in which i REALLY want to think about him, so i dont acutally think about him that much, cause like seriously he's my teacher! i just wish to all hell that he was my age. i'm sure i'm not the only one this happens to. and even though i've decided i'm straight rather than bisexual, i still understand some of what people say on these forums because i know what its like to be in love with someone you feel you're not "supposed" to be in love with (though legitimate in my case).
I want to have sex with my landlord,who has 6 kids and a husband that i see all the time(But she's hot lol).When I call her for something I can talk and talk and it's hard to get off the phone and I just want to keep talking to her about anything.So I try to make my calls short cause I can go on and on and I feel uncomfortable.I also feel like I have to put on an act and pretend I'm not attracted to her which can make me more uncomfortable and slightly frustrated.Do we tend to want what we can't have,I don't know. Peace & Happiness, Joey*
I totally respect the fact that you have a crush on him and doubt your feelings, but i really dont think you should pursue it. This kind of stuff ruins peoples lives. Think about if you entered into a relationship with him and the school found out. He would be fired, maybe go to jail, his wife would find out and he could get a divorce. Its a shame that we live in a society that paints an imaginary line on the age its okay to have sex at but thats the way it is. So for his sake, I wouldnt pursue it.
Hey Annajane, I've got to agree with guybob, disaster might ensue if you pursue it. There's a bit more discussion of this kind of thing in the Free Love forum, check it out. good luck, babe
Yeah, there's a thread about having a crush on your teacher somewhere around here. We've all done it. I had a teacher I used to fantasize all time about. Best not to act on it, of course, but the fantasy is totally normal. Hey Top! How are you sunshine?
wow...i wasn't even thinking about "pursuing" it, as you say...i can't believe somebody even thought that... are there people who would actually do that?
lol...no, I don't think most people would. I was just making sure - I mean, I don't know you so for all I knew you might be thinking about it. But no, I certainly never thought seriously about pursuing my crush either.
HA! I bet there are some out there who'll try to nail a cute teacher. I used to be a teacher (of mature students) and some guys would totally put their phone numbers on the top of their homework with "call me"! *Sigh* No hot girl did though, damn! Hey Mol! How's it going babe?
