Girls:How do you think during Sex?

I'm a guy. I love my girlfriend dearly, however I'd like to know how our thoughts on sex differ.

From what i've heard, girls connect more on an emotional level with their partners. Which means while i'm focusing more on her breasts, vagina, or the sounds she's making. It's my guess that she's thinking about her feelings for me during the act, instead of the act itself.

So girls, I'd like to hear your opinion. On how you feel and how you think during sex, are you fully aware of everything that's going on, or do you feel lustful and focused on the actions in sex?

 

lmao, in my opinion if he's doing it right I shouldn't be able to think.

However, after it's over I feel very emotionally charged.

 

I usually think about what my vagina is feeling xDD

 

So would you say girls get caught up in the sex drive as well? Or are you actively aware of the situation. I can imagine if he's not doing it right you'd be a little annoyed but, i'd like to see more feedback on this.

I want to see the general consensus of girls and what they think about during sex.

 

I'm with Sarahrei.

 

To be...'emotionally charged' would be the whole, full of affection and wanting to hold onto the other person yes?

I know for me, and I assume most guys. When it ends for us, we immediately feel a little awkward, once the lust and sex drive stops. You realize what you're doing. And sometimes feel ashamed of for it. But that shameful feeling dissipates after a few minutes.

I think it may be a chemical thing, but I do love that girl to death, even when i'm not lusty. Afterwards I'd think i'd be wanting to cuddle up to her and the like. >___< This is actually kind of embarassing to talk about now that I think about it.

 

mostly im thinking 'damn that feels good' and occasionally 'we need lube'
lots of 'fuck that feels good' though. especially with foreplay.

 

So true lol...I'm not "thinking", but I'm feeling him. Sometimes he gets too worked up about making sure that I get off repeatedly, and I'd like to make sure he's as satisfied as I am. Last week though, we were having sex after I had came home from a week long trip. During almost the end I just felt so happy that I was back home and with him that I started crying. Most guys would've probably freaked out, but he was soo supportive and just kissed my forehead and told me that he was here for me.