First time recieved oral was 4 months into relationship completley out of the blue! Was amazing! Anal... Yet to be discovered
Can you go into any detail about the experience (no i dont mean porn) just about if you / your partner were nervous about doing it, how long it lasted, etc? Btw when do you plan on trying anal? For me, my first time getting anal was painful, but at the same time *extremely* erotic and pleasureable. I think i enjoy it more than my husband does! lol We didnt have any kind of lube onhand, so we used lotion that i keep in my purse to help it fit. He was anxious, so when he realized how hard it was going to be to fit it in, he went into frantic mode (the kind guys get into when they cant unhook a bra for the first time) lol. He was very gentle with me though, and i swear i had the most intense orgasm that night that i had ever experienced. It only took me about 10 minutes to "zap" as you could call it, and then he came shortly after. First time giving oral i was more than nervous, because it was the first sexual encounter i ever had. I had never really seen a penis physically my whole life, so the first 3 or 4 minutes i just played with it. Literally. lol When i realized that it was no longer a toy, and actually started sucking him, i was amazed how enticing his taste was (i had always heard it was gross). Im not sure how 'good' i was, but he seemed to like it okay, cummed after 5 minutes (took me by surprise, and i got my first facial! lol), but it lasted about 10-15 minutes aswell.
The first time I gave head, I was a freshman in highschool and I'd been dumped by my boyfriend (who was the typical senior slut preying on wide eyed freshman-really, I was so innocent, looking back on it makes me wanna puke!) anyway, one of his friends swooped in to take advantage of me, and I ended up sucking him off. I just remember being extremely bored. He came in like 10 minutes (and I swallowed. Expected it to be worse than it was, but it wasn't a big deal to me!), but the whole time I was watching the TV. Then like a week later I gave head to my ex boyfriend (he had another girlfriend by then, I suppose I was a little bitter, so call me a slut, whatever). This was slightly less boring. Now I'm really into sucking dick, but I would NEVER put either of those guy's cocks in my mouth again! Hmmm. I'm trying to remember the first time someone ate out my pussy. I think it was a girl...Well no the first time was when I was really drunk and the same ex boyfriend mentioned above was trying to have sex with me (he was an ex at the time too, hurrah drunken summer nights, right?) and he went down on me, which was absolutely amazing, and then we started having sex and that was not so amazing at all so I just pushed him off me and left. Haven't talked to him since! I've got a question to pose though, for all those bisexual girls out there, do you think that guys or girls are better at eating pussy? My current boyfriend is fucking amazing, but until I met him, girls were the best at it, hands down. Just want to know what y'all think!
The first time I went down on a guy was kind of scary, but the guy was really helpful and was quite relaxed about telling me what he liked and how he wanted me to do it. I was grateful for that guidance cos I had no idea! I just sucked on it, didn't really do any creative licking and teasing with my tongue an didn't touch his balls. Pretty tame really, but nevertheless, being a horny teenager, he came pretty quickly. I got out of the way just in time. It took me a bit of practice and confidence to build on my technique and swallow. But even though our relationship wasn't that great he did teach me a lot about how to handle a cock, I've gotta respect him for that. As for guys versus girls, I've had oral from way more guys than girls, so I'm biased, but I can compare the time I experienced oral sex from a girl who had never done it before and a guy who had never done it, and the girl definitely had the advantage of intuition and knowing what a clitoris is for!
The first time I gave oral- I was with a slightly abusive BF - rushed cause we were in the back seat of his dads car and his dad was shopping.. wasn't very nice...but at least he wasn't well enough endowed to hurt me that way . The 1st time I recived was "nice"..but I was with roboto boy, who thought he "knew" how all women needed to be pleased.Which sucked for me because too much clit stimulation irritates me more than pleases-and he didn't get that.It was always the same.Left right down cirle,repeat-yawn. anal the 1st couple of times hubby and I TRIED made attepts ,were bad,too painful no matter how gentle he was.. and we gave up- Then one day out of the blue ,after I had already O'd a few times I just wanted it-grabbed him and directed him-THAT was painful but in an oddly good way,and fucking awesome. -blush-
First time I gave a blow job was in the front seat of a pickup truck with an ex on our way home. He wanted to have sex, but I was a virgin and was happy to stay that way. Wasn't bad, and it made him happy. First time with a woman was one of those giggling girl moments that turned into more. It was with an older friend of mine, and one of the most memorable nights of my life. I think that was the night I realized I was in love with her. She is the only woman that I ever made love to, or with. The rest of them were fun to play with Anal sex is okay. My first time was awkward and painful, yet delightfully naughty. Lots of lube, fresh batteries for the vibe on my clit, and a wonderful husband made it a pleasant experience. As for who licks better pussy; men or women. Simply put, neither. I have been with women that couldn't find a clit if they had a road map, and men that made me see God. What has been my observation is the ones that get turned on by doing it are better, both men and women. The don't just lick or suck it, they worship it......
I was 15, and I got oral from my boyfriend about a month and a half before I gave it to him. It felt nice, but I've never been able to cum from it. I've had better oral since then, but I've still never gotten off. The only way I can is if he's fingering me at the same time. I have never had anal sex.
Cuff, you are the godess of forum topics! My first anal is still burned into my mind! Pre-internet, anal was just not so prevalent, barely ever seen in porn tapes either. I was with my GF who later became my wife, then ex. She was smokin' hot, 20, short blonde hair, slim, small tits, and a total freak. Me, an inexperienced 19 year old farm kid (sounds hokey, but true). Anyhow, was one of those swing from the ceiling fan sweaty Savannah Georgia fuck sessions, she was face down with her ass in the air and I was trying not to cum by pulling out and rubbing my cock up and down between her ass cheeks. At one point, I just started to tickle her cute little hole wih the head of my dick, she inhaled so fast that I thought I'd hurt her and started to appologize. She reached back and started to rub my cock on her asshole and just begged me to put it in. Hottest thing I've ever heard! The thought of both of us dripping with sweat and me slowly focrcing my cock in her ass will stay with me forever! The head would go in, I could feel her ass so tight under the ridge of my cock, then she would force it out and pant like she was giving birth! It obviously hurt and felt good at the same time. About the third time, my inexperienced cock could take it no more and I started to cum right outside of her asshole, she knew I was cumming and let out a whimper like moan and used my cum to fully lube her ass as I pushed into her and finished cumming inside her. Wonderful. She used to fuck me in the ass also, another story.
I had a GF who never had sex before - not even oral, she did the same thing to me!! PLAYING with my dick, giggling... but doing almost nothing.... Tooks a few dayto teach her. he good part is I taught her to do it the way I love it!!:drool:
Haha! I was just getting aquainted with the male anatomy before actually doing it, thats all Im not sure what she did, but i bounced it around a bit because it looked funny. He cracked up laughing so hard at me for that. lol He actually got really turned on by it when i did, and he still does (of course now i do it just for show) lol. Thats the cool thing about being someones first - that person gets taught to do what you like personally, because theyve never done it any other way.
She was just holding it, really like discovering how it was, how it feels, how it reacts... That was funny but after a while - well, play time is over! lol She learned fast, anyway
Yeah, i did too Well... At least until i realized that it was *much* more fun to make him moan and squirm than to bounce his penis around.
First oral was with a random dude in his late 20's/early 30's when I was 16, we had fooled around a bit on a couple occasions and the first time I went down on him was in his car. After watching so much porn, I mean, it felt pretty good and I knew what to do. The guy was considerate and always told me when he was going to come so I could back off so he wouldn't come in my mouth (looking back I am very greatful as I never asked for this). First anal was late last year with my husband; I spent a coupla weeks preparing myself first by masturbating and penetrating myself with increasingly larger dongs/vibrators till I was up to a dildo his size. When we did it together it still hurt (and still does sometimes) but was alot easier on me since I knew what to expect and had been practicing!
I am a noobie to forums and don't know the rules of when to reply, so I might be too late but having anal sex is my biggest turn on. Just reading BigDan's story of his first anal makes me so hot and wet. My first anal was when I ws 19, my boyfriend (now my husband) and I were having a full on fuck session lasting all night. When I asked him to fuck my arse he got so hard it felt so huge going in, it was almost too much to take but felt so good too. He was so turned on he couldn't contain himself and came inside me after about a minute, I was lying there panting and squirming and wet.
Oral: I have always been oral, both with girls and guys. My first time was impulsive with a girl I was out walking with and we slipped into an alcove and I pulled down her jeans and went at it clumsily. Over the years I learned more, like when the girl instructed me to 'suck it.' Eventually, I could make my wife nearly squish my head between her thighs and break my fingers in her **** when she came so hard. I mean cursing orgasms. She liked it with two fingers in her, palm up stroking the top of her vagina (G-spot I suppose) while thoroughly doing her wet labia and clit. It is fun to have your partner that excited. I love doing oral on guys. I like uncut guys with just a little whiff of smegma. (Also, like a little smegma on a clit and often press my nose into one before getting it in my lips). I have learned that some uncut guys are sooo sensitive that they can't take much liking under their glans. I don't particularly like eating cum, so if they go in my mouth I make sure it is back in my throat where I can swallow it. Don't want cum on my tongue. Anal: I'm a top. I have never done anal with a woman (it seemed unnecessary as there was a more appropriate hole) When I was young, when still pretty straight, I was sought after by a couple of gay friends who wanted me to fuck them. I enjoyed it and they really got off on it. One took me like a woman, wrapped his legs around me while I pounded away. We barebacked in those days and I remember one gross time when I pulled out and had shit all over my cock, behind the head. :ack: Ass for me, I don't like receiving. I don't even like getting prostate exams. I had a friend fuck me once just for the experience, and it hurt (Why I picked a thik Latino for my first time is beyond me) I really couldn't walk right for a couple of days.
Thanks for the shout-out Angelina! Great story also. I'm new to the forums also and probably screwing up! A great way to share with other like minded people. I have not tried anal with my present GF! I don't really know why. She has such a gorgeous little ass and I cannot seem to keep my tounge out of it, but have not pushed for it. It drives her crazy when we are fucking doggie style, I lube my thumb and circle her ass deeper and deeper, stretching but not inserting, she loves it and turns me on to no end. Anyone else like this?
First time receiving oral - big disappointment but you don't like to seem unappreciative. Took several gfs before I found one that could really turn me on with oral - she loved it and it showed. First time giving oral couldn't get enough of the pussy - loved to have 69 with her on top rubbing her pussy in my face. For some reason my current gf doesn't like it that way only 69 on the bottom, oh well can't have it all. I can't imagine being with a woman that didn't want me to eat her out, that would be weird. First time anal - she was really into it, it was her idea. But we were ill prepared in the lube department and she wanted to be on top. I don't think she wanted any foreplay either. She had some problems getting it in and then I think there was a poop problem and we had to wait until another night. Then we had tons of lube and she was able to cum. I'd say we actually had too much lube because I really couldn't feel much it was so wet - but just watching my cock in her ass and her going frantic at her clit was a big turn on. She was pleasantly surprised she could cum with me in her ass and I enjoyed cumming in her ass. Getting the head of my cock in past the sphincter and later burying it to the balls is always a joy... so glad my current gf is into it now, it was worth waiting for. Oh yeah! Have yet to do it (anal) doggy style - would love to see her ass filled by my cock and an anal creampie dripping out - all stuff to look forward to right?
