Last night I was having sex with my girlfriend and after only a couple of minutes I felt like I was going to cum. I slowed way down until right before orgasm and then just stopped. I had a really intense orgasm (she felt my contractions easily) but no ejaculation. My arousal had waned only slightly and I kept going and about five minutes later I orgasmed and ejaculated like normal. Has anyone else had such an experience? This has happened to me a handful of times, but I want to understand why and how to have control over it. I've read online about male multiple orgasms, but they all say to squeeze the pc muscle right before orgasm to prevent ejaculation, but that would also prevent it from contracting, thereby stopping the orgasm, too. When it has happened to me, I've slowed stimulation way down before orgasm and then right before orgasm stopped altogether, no squeezing. Any thoughts?
I came on here with the intention of asking that same question. This just happened to me about a week ago.
Hi mew2 and sintastic. I hope you still use this forum... I came across male multiple orgasms when I was searching how to last longer (quite funny really, my girlfriend went back to china for last summer and I was afraid I'd lose my stamina so I searched!). I started practicing some of the techniques, strengthening the PC, squeezing it just before the point of no return, etc. And then one night, I experienced something which sounds like what you had. I had a hard orgasm, like all the contractions of a normal ejaculation (and with me my right eye shuts lol), but I didnt ejaculate. So I kept on going, and did it again, and one more time, and then stopped out of amazement. And i Dont know how i did it. But I have never been able to do it again! and the more I have read around, the more i keep seeing, men whole body orgasm's and relaxing into it etc. I tried more and more, but i feel tiny contractions, and thats it, not an orgasm. and everything i read never says anything about a full ejaculation-like contraction! I really want to be able to do it again. I mean orgasming properly with no ejaculation like 4 times with ur girlfriend, then ejaculating. it would be amazing. So any advice on like how u do it? I tried having sex and getting closer and closer and slowing down and stopping, but then i just stop, no orgasm?
Some guys start their orgasms with a few "dry" orgasmic contractions before the stuff starts to come out, and if they work at it, they can retard the actual ejaculations (it may go a little soft), then work back up to the real deal. Been there, done that.
mate, are those dry contractions the real big ones, like the first few of the 'wet' one lol. because i can get to the first few little contractions, but then either i cum, or like u said dont and build it back up... i keep on practicing every time i have sex with ma girl, but meh still cant have a full dry one followed by the real wet one.
