Good Looking But Never Had A Girl Friend

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by donniboy, Mar 23, 2008.

  1. donniboy

    donniboy Member

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    i am 17 6'0 210 football player, very athletic and good looking. but when it comes to girls i freeze i hate to admit but im scared i dont know why..and im not just looking for sex. i want somebody i want to share my feelings with,talk, and love. what should i do?
     
  2. Sininabin

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    if you don't mind me asking where do you live? But, generally i find the best things to do for women in general is have avid interets. If you were concert goer those can be good enviroments to meet people, you should make a preety good friend network at your school with the other football player, but the frist step is do you have any friends who are girls? Because if you can't talk to girls you're not interested in that even harder, it's true to be confident about yourself and to asset your ideas an ideals. I'm rambbling becasue I'm not the greatest ladies man and most everything I've had has been dumb luck, but get a car to that can help. Though talking is the frist step, then asking to dances. Also it can be easier to talk in groups like at lunch and if you go to dance with a girl of your fancy see if it possible to make it a double date so you won't be as pressured to talk but can slowly work your way in, never daydream while she is talking or on a date. Also asking your friends can be really useful just things who is single or even who might be slightly interested. Back in highschool i played football and the frist anything I got was with the help of a football buddy.
     
  3. Chris_mate

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    Takes so much more than looks to find and be found in authentic love !!!
     
  4. Rodney823

    Rodney823 Member

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    I feel like you are me when I was your age. I'm the romantic type, I want love over anything. Let me just tell you that your time will come, and youll have that girl of your dreams. I got mine, yours will come.

    Be more aggressive though in talking to women. Make sure you don't creep on them though. Do a lot of talking, make sure the woman you're going after starts to think that you're not the typical guy trying to get in her pants.

    The girl Im with now started crushing on me because of my sense of humor. Youll find someone that matches yours, and things will come naturally. Do the small things for a girl too, bringing her coffee, sending her random text messages that make her laugh when she's had a bad day.

    Find that target, your dream girl, and start talking to her...she may not just fall into your lap!
     
  5. Cutted

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    Join a social club when you are not playing football where you can share common interests with a female, get to know her, and perhaps date and become friends. You have no reason to be scared if you are athletic and goodlooking. The girls are probably just waiting for you to ask them for a date. Do it. The worst they can say is no, and that could be for many reasons, many of them entirely unrelated to you.
     
  6. sunshowers

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    You're still young, and a lot of girls don't know what they want when they're 17 - I sure didn't. I ended up dating somebody great at that age because he approached me, and then I continued the chase.
    You are good-looking, you are going into a relationship with the right motives, you do want to be a great boyfriend. I'll bet there are about 23092449 billion girls wanting someone like you right now. But they'll never know this about you unless you strike up a conversation!
     
  7. honeyhannah

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    Believe it or not there are lots of nice, good looking guys in their 20's who've never had a girlfriend, and that is because they are like you, looking for something real... it might be better that you wait, unless there's really someone special high school and college reationships tend to be really crappy
     

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