hey people!! just after a bit of help and advice... in january i became single after a two year realationship it was no ones thourght we just drifted as he was away most the time in the week and just home at the weekends and summer term we stopped chatting and i became miserble anyways we decided to stay close friends keep intouch which is easy with msn and emails and texts... we have seen eachother since cinemas and drinks out... a few weeks back he was asking to see me abit which i started to think was unusuall but nice... one day we were walking back from the pub and he cuddled me and we kissed and i said to him you regret finishing it and you still miss me and love me he started to cry and said yes everyday we both opened up and said things we have always wnated to but never had... we spoke about the problems we had when were together and the things that needed to be changed if we were going to get back together... we left it at that... i text him that night and said so are we bf and gf again orrr friends he said that while his been away his become fond of another girl aswell and needs to think what he wants but he doesnt want to hurt me and loose me and everything that was said on the way home he meant... we met up again and spent the whole day together and in the end i spoke to him about stuff and said i still love him and want him back but i cant take him back while his away and that we should wait and see what happens after his apprentship... i dont get weather he was seeing if i have moved on or noticed i had and didnt want me too... means what he said... he is really confused him self and dnt no wat he wants hmm helpppp!!
just chill and stay with him but learn to cope with the distance thing, if you cant cope with distance now, think how it will be if you break up when you really dont have an issue other than dealing with being away from him
hmmmm why did he text you taht question you should talk that out for sure i dono distance is a big thing i think you need to ask yourself if distance makes the heart grow fonder or if the absence makes your heart forget
