a question for the guys...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by GracieLouFreebush, Apr 7, 2008.

  1. GracieLouFreebush

    GracieLouFreebush Member

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    Hey guys,
    i would like to get on top of my man and get myself off ( clit stimulation manually) while he is inside me ... and watching..

    is this something that most of you would find hot? I worry that he'll think that he alone can't get me off...

    I get excited just thinking about it!
     
  2. silverhippy

    silverhippy Comfortably Numb

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    Indeed it is hot, just watching her grind away is the best, and when she cums even better, there are alot of women that get off better when they can control it, go for it, don't worry he will be way into, just jump him and do it you and your guy will love it.

    Peace
     
  3. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Sarah's Fiancee here: It really depends on the guy really. If he's secure with himself and his skills he shouldn't have any issue with it, or find it very erotic if that is something that he would be into. If the guy doesn't have the confidence in his skills or is insecure then it could be a major strike to his ego. Talk about it beforehand or just listen for the clues, if he's asking to watch you get off, chances are that he'll love watching you get off while he can feel you getting off as well.
     
  4. GracieLouFreebush

    GracieLouFreebush Member

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    yeah, he wants to feel it.. and I can't get off with just intercourse alone.. so..

    I'm glad to oblige!

    thanks for the advice

    GLF
     
  5. I just posted something similar.

    I love when my girl gets on top, and her cumming on my dick while I am still inside her is just amazing, I can usually time myself real close to her cumming so I cum seconds after her. Must say though, she knows how to ride!!!!
     
  6. GracieLouFreebush

    GracieLouFreebush Member

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    that is awesome. tell me, how do you like her to move? Up and down, fwd and back? just her fucking the tip of you? or the whole shaft? fast ? slow? which feels best to you?

    and, which movement made her cum ?
     
  7. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    Only about 25-30% of women can get orgasms from intercourse alone, so he should not feel bad if you need more stimulation. Most women need it, and almost half can only get an orgasm from masturbation, or seldom or never get one.
     
  8. -CoDy-

    -CoDy- Member

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    Hell yea that's hot! Yeah that would be awesome if you could get MY gf to do that. I dunno, as long as he knows it's not bcuz he's slacking!? haha

    only my .02 tho
     
  9. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

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    Based on men I have known I would say that whichever position that you are really enjoying is a position he will enjoy. I have yet to meet a man, that while watching his girlfriend getting off, wants her to stop what she is doing.

    As for the "how" part, that depends entirely on you and your boyfriend. Have fun, try out new things, play with the head (sliding it on the outside of your vagina so it teases both of you), grind deep and everything in between. I think a nice slow stroke and grind is a good middle ground. ;)
     

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